FlyMoon Posted August 14, 2011 Posted August 14, 2011 Started dating again slowly, but this is just so difficult... We went on two dates so far and they were a lot of fun. He said "You are really pretty", "You are a nice girl" etc, held my hand when we were walking... Most of the time though, I'm busy trying to see if he is doing this or that just to get laid. He called me "honey" or "baby" a few times (only on the second date though) but considering how we only knew each other for a week or two by now, I think he probably is? Or are some guys just like that? And first date was sunday and the second date was on friday. He did not contact me at all until friday morning. He could have been busy (i'm okay if that's the case) but maybe he has a gf ? Am I just paranoid? Or I haven't just met the right guy yet?
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted August 14, 2011 Posted August 14, 2011 yes, some guys are just out for sex. he seems to be showing the signs (from the little that you wrote) BUT like you said he may have been busy which is why he didn't call you, and some guys jump in to calling girls babe, baby, or honey very soon. I think you are a little paranoid and you probably haven't found the right guy... not to bash the guy you're dating but considering the population of the earth, what you are looking for in a guy, and the divorce/separation rating I am very weary on the whole "the one" thing and "the right girl/guy" thing and find the odds of finding "the one" or "the right girl/guy" very discouraging. When you're with this guy, stick you your guns, trust your instincts and act accordingly. If you think he's only in it for sex then hold out on sex with him until you feel comfortable. if he has a girlfriend.... get the hell out of that situation.
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