The End of the Era of the Gentleman

[MrNate]

BTW, the word is "moot," not "mute."

 

What a stickler:laugh:

[Woggle]

Speaking of balls... she also hit him in the nuts a lot because she thought it was funny. Not to be abusive but just because she found it funny. But I am sure it was not funny at all to him.

 

Wtf?! I never understood him even being with her for as long as he did. Nor do I get how he could've possibly loved her. She is a great friend but terrible girlfriend.

 

She sure sounds like a winner.

[donnamaybe]

What a stickler:laugh:

 

Just trying to be helpful.

[LoveandSuch]

BTW, the word is "moot," not "mute."

Listen Donna, I can tell you are used to being treated like a man, according to your cattiness and making up assumptions, so lay off and change your butt ugly avatar. I said Mute for the fact, I wish you would just shut your loud, obnoxious mouth. Mute. Play Mute, blind, deaf.... You make zero sense in your arguments.

[MrNate]

I apologize for offending you with my comments. I'm just telling it like I see it.

 

You sound like a good guy. I'm sure no one would complain that you are not a gentleman.

 

Come back south ruby. There's gonna be one special man waiting on ya.

[LoveandSuch]

What a stickler:laugh:

 

yes, she is a cold, hard, :lmao:nasty bitch, I completely agree.

[donnamaybe]

yes, she is a cold, hard, :lmao:nasty bitch, I completely agree.

 

The word is "smarter."

[LoveandSuch]

This is one of many example why your man is very lucky.

Yeah, but she is entiltled to her man freezing his nuts off because he can handle the cold much differently than her body handles it....ridiculous. Next.

[donnamaybe]

Listen Donna, I can tell you are used to being treated like a man, according to your cattiness and making up assumptions, so lay off and change your butt ugly avatar. I said Mute for the fact, I wish you would just shut your loud, obnoxious mouth. Mute. Play Mute, blind, deaf.... You make zero sense in your arguments.

 

Word up ladies. This is the part where she teaches you how to draw in all those "gentlemen."

[MrNate]

Listen Donna, I can tell you are used to being treated like a man, according to your cattiness and making up assumptions, so lay off and change your butt ugly avatar. I said Mute for the fact, I wish you would just shut your loud, obnoxious mouth. Mute. Play Mute, blind, deaf.... You make zero sense in your arguments.

 

her avatar is actually kind of sexy. maybe it just me, but i like a woman with a big mouth.

 

for obvious reasons.

 

yep. im that straightforward.

[LoveandSuch]

The word is "smarter."

 

Nah...honey, wish what you want....you are desperate and hard. Smart, as in what? Being the joke in the relationship, the man using you. It is the best you can do, so you are nasty to those who have better choices than you. Your arguments have no merit. Does your man think you are too stupid to start your own car? Apparently! This is the way you argue, like a scorned and bitter woman.

[LoveandSuch]

her avatar is actually kind of sexy. maybe it just me, but i like a woman with a big mouth.

 

for obvious reasons.

 

 

 

yep. im that straightforward.

 

Yeah, RuPaul in drag, gorgeous he/she, I am sure she thinks it's beautiful and probably has held a few.....

[donnamaybe]

So guys, let me tell you how a woman properly takes care of a good man.

 

My sweetheart worked an extra long week, so I made him a great dinner after I got home from work, then I soaked his feet, took a pumice stone to the rough patches, rubbed them with a sea salt scrub, then rinsed, dried, and massaged them with lotion and put on some cotton socks. He loved it!

 

THAT is how you find a gentleman.

[donnamaybe]

Nah...honey, wish what you want....you are desperate and hard. Smart, as in what? Being the joke in the relationship, the man using you. It is the best you can do, so you are nasty to those who have better choices than you. Your arguments have no merit. Does your man think you are too stupid to start your own car? Apparently! This is the way you argue, like a scorned and bitter woman.

 

Careful sunshine. Your desperation is showing.

 

It's been - enlightening. Time to go snuggle with my baby. He worked hard today putting up the new walls in our bedroom that we are remodeling. He is absolutely brilliant! I am SUCH a lucky gal!

[LoveandSuch]

I will say it again since Scarymary has decided to make this thread about who should pay for a date.

If a man asks you out on a date, he should pay.

[LoveandSuch]

So guys, let me tell you how a woman properly takes care of a good man.

 

My sweetheart worked an extra long week, so I made him a great dinner after I got home from work, then I soaked his feet, took a pumice stone to the rough patches, rubbed them with a sea salt scrub, then rinsed, dried, and massaged them with lotion and put on some cotton socks. He loved it!

 

THAT is how you find a gentleman.

 

You just assume again, I do absolutely nothing for the men in my life. I can tell you one thing, I am not desperate enough to scrub dead skin off a man's feet, and rub his ashy feet with lotion. What is he, 100 years old? Gross.

[KathyM]

I think there's still a lot of chivalrous men in the world. I think a lot of men still hold the door open for women. I always thank them when they do. I think it's charming when men behave so politely and considerately. It shows respect.

[LoveandSuch]

Careful sunshine. Your desperation is showing.

 

It's been - enlightening. Time to go snuggle with my baby. He worked hard today putting up the new walls in our bedroom that we are remodeling. He is absolutely brilliant! I am SUCH a lucky gal!

 

Hey it's June from Leave It To Beaver. Ha ha ha, I am desperate, I am not the one scrubbing dead skin off a man's feet and then bragging about it. Do you wipe his ass too?

[KathyM]

I think it's also important for women to show their men kindness and consideration. Taking care of their man--shows respect and caring. I cook most of our dinners from scratch, I give my husband massages every night, I help him carry in the grocery if he buys some. Doing things for your SO is one of the things that keeps the relationship strong. I think a lot of reasons why marriages or relationships fail is because people stop doing all those little things for each other that shows caring.

[LoveandSuch]

The word is "smarter."

 

Smarter than what? Mute for Moot. Common and used interchangeably. It has been established and documented that Mute is actually much clearer in definition than the word moot, although not correct in purely old world terms. So, really who cares, other than DonnaBaby, who seems to have to jump on all my posts, because she is soooo happy with her old man, that she spends time on a relationship board.

I happen to be going through heartache right now, and you are what, scrubbing an old man's feet and wiping his ass. Sounds fun. No wonder you are so happy (cough) that you are wasting your time here.

I ask a men to merely be respectful and a behave like a gentleman, and you ask him to go above and beyond plausible expectations to start a car for you in frigid temperatures. Whatever!

Happy Trolling.

[LoveandSuch]

I think it's also important for women to show their men kindness and consideration. Taking care of their man--shows respect and caring. I cook most of our dinners from scratch, I give my husband massages every night, I help him carry in the grocery if he buys some. Doing things for your SO is one of the things that keeps the relationship strong. I think a lot of reasons why marriages or relationships fail is because people stop doing all those little things for each other that shows caring.

 

I agree to a certain point. If a woman is working over 50+ hours a week, I do not believe she needs to come home late and prepare from scratch dinners, rub and scrub feet. There are small ways to show consideration and respect. I think it is absurd for someone to just assume it is one way. No one said that or hinted to this other than the whiney men of LS and DonnaBaby. All smoke and mirrors, I believe.

[KathyM]

I agree to a certain point. If a woman is working over 50+ hours a week, I do not believe she needs to come home late and prepare from scratch dinners, rub and scrub feet. There are small ways to show consideration and respect. I think it is absurd for someone to just assume it is one way. No one said that or hinted to this other than the whiney men of LS and DonnaBaby. All smoke and mirrors, I believe.

I guess this thread took a turn for the worse. I took a peek at it earlier today, and liked what I read, but didn't have time to respond. Not sure how it digressed since then, but I just wanted to say that I think, despite how busy, tired, etc., that people are, it's very important to show your SO how much you care about them by doing little things for them, as well as some big things. My husband still opens doors for me when we are out. Still offers me his coat if I am cold. Still does a lot of things for me, and I do a lot for him as well. Doesn't take that long to do them, but it means a lot that he still does it.

[MrNate]

The era of the gentleman hasn't ended. I see nothing wrong with a man doing something nice for his girl. If she had a long day at work, and i happened to be off, when she gets home, ill let her get comfortable. Then I'll get half naked and put an apron on (so she has some eye candy) and cook a badass meal.

 

It has nothing to do with selfishness or who is more deserving of what. It simply involves taking care of that woman who is most important in your life, and making it easier.

[KathyM]

The era of the gentleman hasn't ended. I see nothing wrong with a man doing something nice for his girl. If she had a long day at work, and i happened to be off, when she gets home, ill let her get comfortable. Then I'll get half naked and put an apron on (so she has some eye candy) and cook a badass meal.

 

It has nothing to do with selfishness or who is more deserving of what. It simply involves taking care of that woman who is most important in your life, and making it easier.

That's a good boy. My husband often takes off all his clothes (when our son is out of the house), and starts to load the dishwasher, etc. Nothing like seeing your spouse doing housework in the nude to warm your heart.

[Woggle]

The kind of relationships that Donnamaybe and KathyM describe are great things were both people do nice things for each other. LoveandSuch flat out says that she does nothing for a man but expects a man to cater to her. It's easy to see who will have happier relationships.