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If I take a break from my relationship, will it work?


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Here is the reason why I want a break. A few months ago, my girlfriend kissed another guy because she was depressed and he was there to comfort her. I didn't even know she was depressed at the time. I do know now btw. Anyways, she kissed him for 2 seconds, realized what she did was wrong and left and told me instantly. It took me some time to forgive her and I thought I had forgot about it. But the more I fall for her the more this issue comes up. The reason why I want to take a break is so I can clear my mind. I do love her which is why I forgave her and I do trust her. She has done a lot to make up for it. But I need to take a break to get over my insecurities. This break is not so I can screw around with other women. It is purely based off this one incident. Breaking up with her is not an option. I enjoy being with her which is why I want to take a chance with this break, so we can work out in the long run. Am I justified with wanting a break? I do not think I would need a long time with this break because I do love her.

 

I have had a lot of fun with her and want to have more fun times. I just want our relationship to be the best it can be and for me, I think by taking a break is the best possible idea. Talking it through wont work because it is my own insecurities.

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