Rinas Posted August 13, 2011 Posted August 13, 2011 If any of you have read my previous threads or posts, it should recap that I left my ex of almost 6 years. I have started seeing a new guy for around a month now, and we are exclusive and doing well. My ex and I had been no contact for awhile. Just recently he had to call me about some bills that are still being received at my house. I explained the situation to him. After awhile we started talking amicably, which was the strange part. We were able to talk almost on a very strange friend level. We were both able to talk to each-other about our new girlfriend/boyfriend briefly. He showed me a picture of his new girlfriend, and I told him how beautiful she was and how lucky he was to have her. (I really mean't it!) I told him about some activities that I've been doing with my new guy, and him vise versa. We both got off the phone and wished each other well for the future. I now know that I've fully moved on. It's all so weird to me. I've decided that we have to go back into no contact however. Should I be telling my new boyfriend about this conversation? I want to be truthful and honest and not have a foundation of lies, but as stated above, this is new to me and I don't know the best way to proceed. LSer's how would you react to your bf/gf being open about such?
betterdeal Posted August 13, 2011 Posted August 13, 2011 I think it depends on how you present it. If you make it clear you're telling them because you want to be honest with them, that would help me understand why you're telling me.
Author Rinas Posted August 13, 2011 Author Posted August 13, 2011 Well that would be my reason. It would feel odd to keep it a secret too, as if I was hiding something. I'm stuck, and scratching my head as this has never happened to me before.
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