lillypolo Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 asically, he broke up with me a year ago after spending about 4 months previous distancing himself and generally not being very interested - I was heart broken- he said we could be friends but then avoided and ignored me and it was all awkward- I got a new boyfriend... also very awkward- we all see one another every day at uni... and now after a year of basically NC, he invites me to his house to celebrate his birthday along with around 20 other select friends - I'm confused. I mean I'd like to go because it would be a good chance to get friendly and be on a good rapport again making things easier on all of us... but what's going on? it all seems a little odd! ps. also going is someone I suspect to be a new love interest for him as weel as my current boyfriend... :\
Nohbody Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 bring a box of matches. just in case I'm kidding.
todd Posted August 13, 2011 Posted August 13, 2011 If you are completely over him I do not see a big deal in trying to reconnect with him after all these years. However, if you still have some feelings that might cause things to be awkward then you need to keep up the NC. If he has underlying motivates to try to reconnect, like trying to get back with you, then you still have your boyfriend there to cling to and show you are not interested and have moved on.
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