falfal88 Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 Well here is my story. My ex and I were dating for a year and 2months but were talking for longer then that. I was his first his serious relationship also his longest. I was the first girl he loved and all. Well after a dating a few months I got pregnant and he was all about me up my butt all the time everything was about me n the baby.Everything was great we were in love and all we were so happy. He moved in with me and still everything was good.Then i had the baby everything was still good then one week he was acting really shady. I asked him about it he said nothing. so i let it go then it kept happening. Then some girl status said he made my night I asked him what was it about he said idk i stopped there to smoke an cig thats it. Well then he told me he was moving out cause he didnt feel the same like he use to but we were still together. He wanted to see if moving out made it better well then we went on a break. Which did nothing cause he he didnt put on effort in it. So after the break we broke up. He saw the baby once a week a family dinner that the baby n i went too. then we were still messing around for awhile and then he started talkin to this girl and then they started dating now for 2months they say they love each other and all. She also just got out of a long relationship not too long ago. But he always texting me and calling me its starts out with stuff with our baby but he tries to keep up more convo. He always brings up his new gf about her going away to school soon and all that. I am now talking to someone and he is always asking about him like are u guys gonna make things offical n all i said idk whats going on yet. But he is always asking about him to me or to his friends. We deleted each other on fb and his friends which are also my friends cause we went to hs together seem to tell him whats on my fb cause he is always question about my fb. His sister n i were talkin and I was telling her how he is always asking about the guy im talkin too and she said that he is afraid to lose u to him cause eventually he wants to work it out and all. Then a few weeks ago he asked me to wear the ring that he go me to family dinner to make sure that i didnt sell it. Why does it matter if i sold it if he told me he dont see us getting back together . So idk what to do.
Nohbody Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 Reading your post made my brain hurt a little. Don't contact him, and let him pursue you. Don't worry about what he's looking at or what questions he is asking. Words and actions are often not consistent - so see what he does, don't worry about what he says.
Author falfal88 Posted August 12, 2011 Author Posted August 12, 2011 I dont contact him I always make him contact me. Only time I contact him if its something with our baby. Then he changes the subject. He is always the one that contacts me
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