mavlast Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 I am ... shall we say, inexperienced. I read a lot of erotica but most of my partners have been the abstinence-until-marriage type, which I was too until recently. I can kind of fake it, but there are some awkward moments. For example, the girl I'm seeing now likes spankings, and I used the word "buttocks" just to be goofy, which pretty much killed the mood instantly. She also likes to be dominated. I don't know, I can use innuendos and call her "slut," etc., but I worry that I'm not going to perform well enough for her or just embarrass myself. Can someone give me a crash course on how to talk naughty and really turn a woman on? Especially helpful would be specific tips on how to be dominant and how to dish out the spankings.
Enchanted Girl Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 It varies from person to person. For real. It's always awkward until you start getting to know them and what they as an individual like. Not that I'm super experienced. I've only had two partners, but they were very different from one another.
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