njruns75 Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 Hi, the guy I've been seeing for 2 months has made some jokes about "did ya send me a naked pic yet... was hoping to see a pic of you" etc... Anyway, tonight, I decided to dress up and take a sexy pic (not naked!) and you can't see my face. Sent it to him out of the blue! Wondering if this is a mistake. Will he think it's being too desparate or will he think it's totally cool and hot? I'm hoping he thinks it is cool that I actually thought to dress up for him and do it. hmm
Spices Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 (edited) It can't be any worse then the men who men send dick pic's. It's fine to send them if you feel like he'd enjoy it, but keep it classy. Also, be forewarned that he'll probably show the pic's to his boys. Edited August 12, 2011 by Spices
musemaj11 Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 (edited) I advise women against sending any racy pictures. It makes you seem unclassy. I honestly dont understand women who do this. My guess is they must be the lacking self-esteem type who need to do something like this in order to feel good about themselves. Edited August 12, 2011 by musemaj11
charagher Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 do what you think it should be done and dont do otherwise. but my advice is dont send your naked pict
Overseer Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 Don't send any naked pictures, if that's all the guy is interested in, you shouldn't be interested in him really... unless you're just doing it for a bit of fun that is... he'll take you as easy and it might even cause some trust issues later on if you sent him pictures of you like that...
Ross MwcFan Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 Doesn't sound desperate at all. You've been with him for two months. Maybe if you sent one the day after you first started talking then that might have come across as pretty desperate. Not that a lot of guys would mind though, lol.
Pierre Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 Hi, the guy I've been seeing for 2 months has made some jokes about "did ya send me a naked pic yet... was hoping to see a pic of you" etc... Anyway, tonight, I decided to dress up and take a sexy pic (not naked!) and you can't see my face. Sent it to him out of the blue! Wondering if this is a mistake. Will he think it's being too desparate or will he think it's totally cool and hot? I'm hoping he thinks it is cool that I actually thought to dress up for him and do it. hmm Is this guy your steady BF? If not-------- then you made a mistake. Did you have sex with this guy yet? If you had sex he is probably showing the photo to his friends and commenting on your private areas with them. In addition, this makes you look desperate.
reboot Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 No it's fine. Him and all his buddies really enjoyed your pic.
Andy_K Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 After two months you should know him well enough to know if he's gonna share the pics around or not. If you don't, consider actually trying to get to know whoever you're with instead of 'seeing what happens'
make me believe Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 BAD idea. I can almost guarantee you that he immediately showed the picture to all of his friends. Also, he probably has tons of similar pics of other girls that he badgered for naked pics after only two months, too.
grkBoy Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 Hi, the guy I've been seeing for 2 months has made some jokes about "did ya send me a naked pic yet... was hoping to see a pic of you" etc... Anyway, tonight, I decided to dress up and take a sexy pic (not naked!) and you can't see my face. Sent it to him out of the blue! Wondering if this is a mistake. Will he think it's being too desparate or will he think it's totally cool and hot? I'm hoping he thinks it is cool that I actually thought to dress up for him and do it. hmm I think it's cool. Total turn on. Let's me know she likes me and perhaps wants me.
SmileFace Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 Is he your boyfriend? I mean either way this isn't really a good idea outside of a committed relationship. However it isn't naked. Wait, are you guys sleeping together?
tigressA Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 Is he your boyfriend? I mean either way this isn't really a good idea outside of a committed relationship. However it isn't naked. Wait, are you guys sleeping together? Seconded. I would never do this outside a committed relationship. If you two aren't an official couple, you messed up. Like other posters have said, his friends have probably already seen the photo.
Author njruns75 Posted August 12, 2011 Author Posted August 12, 2011 Well it wasn't a naked picture, per say. It was a sexy/seductive pic that revealed a bit a skin and also my fAce wasn't seen in it. Still bad idea?
justme37 Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 If you guys are in an committed relationship, I think its a huge turn on and see nothing wrong with it. If you're not, then everyone else is right and your pic has been viewed by almost all of his friends
todd Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 A seductive pic in a committed relationship is a turn on if you guys are serious and involved. It is like an intimate love note telling him what to expect when he gets home. Never send a naked pic thou, you have to leave a little up for his imagination to ponder until he gets home. People can not assume he is showing this pic to all of his friends unless he is extremely immature, young, or both. A real man never brags to or talks to his friends about his encounters, especially showing them intimate pics of his significant other. It shows a lack of class and creates a lack of trust if the girl finds out. It was not smart to send the pic if, he is immature, you guys aren't in a committed exclusive relationship, or you are wearing granny pants in the pic
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