ConfusedGuy28 Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 So I've been talking to this girl from match, and I was calling her today to setup a date. I called her and she texted me back 30 minutes later and said "hey I'll call you in a bit, got stuck talking to a friend" So, no problem. She calls me like 30 minutes ago. She's asking me about my day, what I'm up to, etc. I told her I went and got my haircut. Told her something funny that happened afterwards. My stylist - married and pregnant btw - starts telling me about this client she had (when stylist #3 walked into the back) had an australian accent and #3 went crazy over it. When #3 came back, I said, jokingly, "so, I'm from Australia" and everyone started cracking up. #3 then said "yeah that's right, I wanted that man to scream my name out and whisper it into my ear" - then she looked at me "would you scream or would you whisper" - as a JOKE - I said whisper, and then she dared me to whisper in each of their ears. It was stupid, silly, and just in good fun. I simply shared the story because it was awkward and I shared a embarrassing story the other day that she got a kick out of. She says "well that's interesting"....then asked me what I was doing tonight, and the phone cut out. I thought I lost service, but I texted her and called her a couple of times, no response (first time it went to voice mail, after that it rang fully). So I emailed her and explained what I just wrote above. I don't know what's going on??
Cypress25 Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 Maybe her phone lost service. Or maybe you talk too much and she got bored. Not everyone likes chatting on the phone. I don't mind if a guy calls me to set up a date, but I'd rather save the chit-chat for the actual date. Case in point: A guy called me once to arrange a date, we agreed on a time and place, and I was ready to hang up. Then he starts telling me funny stories about all 3 of his roommates and their girlfriends. He kept me on the phone for 45 minutes, telling me about people I don't even know. I didn't hang up on him but I wanted to! Moral of the story: don't do that to a girl.
Author ConfusedGuy28 Posted August 12, 2011 Author Posted August 12, 2011 (edited) I didn't! She called me and started chit-chatting! She kept asking me about my day, what I did, etc. I couldn't even ask her a out herself! When I called - I was just going to ask how her night was, and setup a day and time for us to go out. When she called - it threw off the balance, and she tried to lead the convo. I wanted to just setup a date! (I also doubt her phone has lost service for the past 90 minutes. At first I thought that was it because it went straight to voicemail. But after that it rang, and I see she's online on match right now). I mean whatever - but seriously, I don't think anything I said was out of line. Who randomly hangs up on someone after 5 minutes? The convo was going fine, I tell my story, 30 seconds later - "click" - speechless Oh wellllllllll Edited August 12, 2011 by ConfusedGuy28
Tasha49 Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 To be honest I feel like your story made her feel awkward. I mean you were talking about someone screaming or whispering someones name. It may be a funny story to you but I feel like you may just have been a bit too comfortable there.
sm1tten Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 Maybe she doesn't share your sense of humor. I thought it was funny. Hear anything back yet?
Author ConfusedGuy28 Posted August 12, 2011 Author Posted August 12, 2011 LOL nothing! hahaha I guess I don't really care, because we hadn't even been on a date or ANYTHING. But, seriously, who does that??? WTF hahahaha If it made her feel uncomfortable, the grown up thing to do would be to at least address that. We're both 28....not 15. It's okay to talk like grown ups I dated a girl once who told me about how some cop pulled her over and tried to get her #, but still gave her a ticket. She thought it was funny, I laughed. (Seriously, gonna hit on a girl AND give her a ticket) - that's funny. Now....if we had been dating for 2-3 months and then she tells me how she was flirting with some cop....totally different story!
rightfield Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 Did it occur to you that the call just dropped and maybe she thinks you hung up on HER?
misskat Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 i think you are overthinking this. the story prolly didnt bother her she could have lost signal or she had something else going on. and if the story did bother her then she is a prude and you prolly wouldnt get along well anyway....dont worry so much
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