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CaliLover1984

By CaliLover1984
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CaliLover1984

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So I dated this guy for 4 months and he HARSHLY broke up with me ( he broke up with me bc he had insecurity issues; I wasnt giving him enough attention, etc etc, and also an embarrassing thing happened also to him with me (in bed) if you know what I mean). Since he ended things, he texted me 6 weeks after, and I responded and I was friendly and then he disappeared. Then 6 weeks later again, he texted me. I didnt respond. So then he imed me a few weeks after that. I didn't respond. They are always about a new season starting about a tv show we watched etc, just excuses.

 

But this past wknd I ran into him after a concert, and he pretty much begged to buy my friend and I a drink at this bar he was going into. So I agreed after much hesitation. He flirted with me the entire time and kept brinign up all these inside jokes we had when dating. I tried to leave at one point bc the bar was really busy and we were waiting for like 20 min for a drink, but when I did, he said he was going to go with us to a different bar! So I just stayed . Then I took off after we finished our drinks while he was in conversation with his sister and friend. He then called me a half hour later, said it was nice to have seen me, he hadn't seen me in forever and to give him a call sometime. I maintained indifference the entire night.

 

Is he trying to be friends? or what? I def do NOT want to be friends with him.I'm not sure about him, bc of how and why he broke up with me, if he is just even more scared of rejection now or what he is trying to do? He seemed really nervous on the phone.

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Did you get a feeling of "This guy's trying too hard to be 'the cool ex' with me"? If you did, you might be right.

 

Are you okay with contacting him now? The nervousness you detected from him can come from lots of possible reasons. Best to stay on the safe side and think these gestures are just for "being cool's" sake until you get something more overt.

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