xButterKiss Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 I've been looking for an answer for this question for awhile now, Me and my best Friend *Chris (Name Changed) have been close since Grade 1, So give or take 12-13 years of knowing each other. He's Gay, And I know it, He told me after a year of dating me, Along with some other things I'm not permitted to say, Any ways. It upsets me too see all these comment's such as; "No It Can't work." "He's gay, He's just going to cheat on you any ways." "Your sex life will be so dead." WRONG! WRONG!! WRONG!!! We've been together for 5-6 years. Not one argument, Not one break up. Neither of us have cheated on the other once. And we're also in a LDR. Our sex life? It's not the most active thing in the world, But when we do have sex, It's something I don't forget. Besides that, When did a relation ship just become focused on how much sex you have..? A relation ship is built on Trust,Compassion, Interest & how much you have been threw together, It's about being there for your partner when He or She needs you. My mother raised me to love someone because you love them, Not for the sex. Sex is a great thing, You learn a lot about your partner, And you gain trust in them, and get to have a fun little work out, But only basing the sexual preferences will give you the completely wrong answer for this type of question. When it comes to the heart of a Straight women & a gay man, you have to take into account the quality time they cherish. To me and in my personal view only, I think that a S. women & a G. man relationship is a very mature based relationship. It's more about the spiritual and emotional connection that you have with one another. Not physical.
Ross MwcFan Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 If you're in a relationship together then surely he's bisexual?
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Feelin Frisky Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 So you're here to convince whom? And welcome to LS.
Afishwithabike Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 The truly gay men I know don't date women. They have no romantic interest in a woman. Bisexual men date women. Sounds to me like he's more bisexual than gay. Just because he's bisexual doesn't mean he can't be monogamous and happy with you ( a woman). I guess that's what you're trying to say.
cerridwen Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 its the feminist way. gay and bisexual are the in things. the feminist agenda and here comes the gay agenda. ^I'm going to ban you. OP, if it works for you, great. If I may ask, how do you feel about him getting his male-male needs met? I'm assuming he's having encounters.
WeatherMe Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 ^I'm going to ban you. OP, if it works for you, great. If I may ask, how do you feel about him getting his male-male needs met? I'm assuming he's having encounters. Also alerted, tired of you, buddy. Enough is enough, get a life. I have to wonder exactly HOW this situation would work. I've known ONE gay male who was married to a straight woman. They had children and he only came out after they were older. They stayed married but didn't have sex anymore, he went elsewhere for that. Are you ok with him getting sex from men? Even if he still has sex with you? It's really not easy to repress those feelings and I think if he IS in fact gay he will be doing it with or without your knowledge.
cerridwen Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 Also alerted, tired of you, buddy. Enough is enough, get a life. I have to wonder exactly HOW this situation would work. I've known ONE gay male who was married to a straight woman. They had children and he only came out after they were older. They stayed married but didn't have sex anymore, he went elsewhere for that. Are you ok with him getting sex from men? Even if he still has sex with you? It's really not easy to repress those feelings and I think if he IS in fact gay he will be doing it with or without your knowledge. Small world. I worked with a man in the exact scenario you described above. Butter, the reason I ask is I'm fascinated when people can accept their SO going elsewhere. It signals a kind of transcendence (?) I lack. ("Transcendence" if indeed it's coming from a healthy place). While I don't aspire to it personally, it's still fascinating. Hope you answer.
somedude81 Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 My number one question is; why? Number two question; why not date a straight male?
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