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Long story short my ex came crawling back, and when i mean crawling i mean a 3 page long email, endless text messages about meeting up.

 

i finally gave in and met up , we have hung out 5x in the past month. The first meet up he was very shy and coy and said we have much to talk about, we talked about a few things but nothing serious. 2nd meeting we talked about a few things but nothing too drastic, the drastic thing he brought up was If i asked you to marry me what would your answer be? i said i dont know right now.

 

Anyhows, everytime after weve been hanging out hes asking what size ring i want, and saying in a few years we will do this when we are married, or we can do this once we get married

 

Personally, im scared of all this talk, in my mind what in the world has happened to him and why all this marriage talk when we are trying to work on things and get back together ughhhh!!! advice? because i am way beyond confused :confused:

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Long story short my ex came crawling back, and when i mean crawling i mean a 3 page long email, endless text messages about meeting up.

 

i finally gave in and met up , we have hung out 5x in the past month. The first meet up he was very shy and coy and said we have much to talk about, we talked about a few things but nothing serious. 2nd meeting we talked about a few things but nothing too drastic, the drastic thing he brought up was If i asked you to marry me what would your answer be? i said i dont know right now.

 

Anyhows, everytime after weve been hanging out hes asking what size ring i want, and saying in a few years we will do this when we are married, or we can do this once we get married

 

Personally, im scared of all this talk, in my mind what in the world has happened to him and why all this marriage talk when we are trying to work on things and get back together ughhhh!!! advice? because i am way beyond confused :confused:

 

Maybe he's scared to lose you again. Or it could be there is another woman.

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so by bringing up the future and possible engagement ensures his safety of not loosing me?

theres no other women that i know of,

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