Dblock10 Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 hey guys, recently me and my ex broke up on good terms. i will miss her dearly but i'm sure she will be happy with what ever she does in the future regardless of wether i am in her life or not. for now she is travelling and just living her life as a young independent woman. however, even though we are not together, there is just something about her that i dont want to let go.. im not sure what it is, because she could have treated me a lot better, and showed valuing being in a relationship to me a little more, but i feel its because she always knew she was going, she always had a game plan and i wasnt in this plan of hers. but there is something, i cant put my finger on it, its not the sex or anything like that, i just think its her, and her persona. how she is just always happy and smiling that makes me want to always have her in my life, even if it means i cant be with her. i obviously wouldnt like to see her with someone else and probably would hurt seeing it, if i hadnt found anyone else to make me happy. but yeah, i dont really know what i am trying to say really. weird!
theseeker Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 It is a normal feeling. You genuinely liked her, those feelings don't just go away. Everyone glorifies their exes, you think about them and all the times you had together and then think "they weren't so bad" or "they were really great" and then you start missing them. It will pass. As far as the smiling/happiness thing, she is simply in touch with who she is. Lots of women are like that.
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