How to get his attention and have him fall in love with me

[khrystyna]

I'm in love with a very successful guy , who is a typical Alpha having all the girls wrapped around his finger (i'm sure). I want to be THE ONE in his life , an epic woman who can comfort his hunger. He is not a player,but a very honest man and admits he is not a relationship material.He is in his late thirties and very busy with his career that seems to be blossoming but still parties like a 21 year old. I am his friend that lives in another country , many hours away from him.He comes out here once every two months for work ,but on the last visit he stayed for several weeks and we got into an amazing affair. We adore each other, but as he left ...i miss him every day and i know he has a "real" life in his country. But i want to be the girl he will miss, as much as i miss him. Please help me to understand what is it that i can do to open his heart to love. As according to him,he's never been in love, never had a serious relationship.But he is a good guy, i know.How to understand him,know his emotions, as he hides them so well. The only way he and i communicate with each other is via facebook.Thank you very much.

[madjac74]

I'm in love with a very successful guy , who is a typical Alpha having all the girls wrapped around his finger (i'm sure). I want to be THE ONE in his life , an epic woman who can comfort his hunger. He is not a player,but a very honest man and admits he is not a relationship material.He is in his late thirties and very busy with his career that seems to be blossoming but still parties like a 21 year old. I am his friend that lives in another country , many hours away from him.He comes out here once every two months for work ,but on the last visit he stayed for several weeks and we got into an amazing affair. We adore each other, but as he left ...i miss him every day and i know he has a "real" life in his country. But i want to be the girl he will miss, as much as i miss him. Please help me to understand what is it that i can do to open his heart to love. As according to him,he's never been in love, never had a serious relationship.But he is a good guy, i know.How to understand him,know his emotions, as he hides them so well. The only way he and i communicate with each other is via facebook.Thank you very much.

 

 

He has girls wrapped around his finger (you assume), parties like a 21 yr old and hides his emotions well and he lives in another country? You are setting yourself up to get hurt. I can't imagine anyone who would want someone in their late thirties that parties like a kid