Hot Chick Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 And yet, you call me cheap and in a dating 'cess-pool' for not needing to be desperate enough to have to pay for a woman. Hmmm... Hi pot, I'm kettle...you are also black. Being on a date is a hypothetical situation for you, however.
LoveandSuch Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 I'm a rule breaker baby...a bad boy... and we all know women love us bad boys. Where is this rule? Is it in a book because I haven't seen it. Does it also have the rule that women need to put out after date number 3? If so, I hope you are putting out. Don't want to break the rules. I find it hilarious that this is your only defense for your beliefs. Sorry don't like bad boys, only good for one thing, a roll in the hay. Then they can tuck their tail and go sh*t elsewhere. I like gentlemen.
Sanman Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Being on a date is a hypothetical situation for you, however. No, I have been on many actual dates.
Sanman Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Sorry don't like bad boys, only good for one thing, a roll in the hay. Then they can tuck their tail and go sh*t elsewhere. I like gentlemen. Well, that works for me since I have no interest in dating you. If I was single, maybe I would take you up on that roll in the hay.
Lovelybird Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Women prefer generous men It is like we women don't have a choice to bear children or not, you men don't have a choice in these things. It is fair
Sanman Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Women prefer generous men It is like we women don't have a choice to bear children or not, you men don't have a choice in these things. It is fair Sure we do. I have gone dutch with my last 3 girlfriends.
Woggle Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Did you go dutch on your first date with your wife? The first date sort was simply a walk around the boardwalk but we hit it off so well that first time that I paid the second time. Most of the other women between marriages though were strictly fun and I wasn't about to shell out big bucks for them. I tend to be a very generous person but resent it when people think they are entitled. When a woman thinks I need to break my wallet because she is such a special princess it makes me not want to spend a dime. When she doesn't act like she is entitled to it I want to go all out for her.
zengirl Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Hey I can work it...and they make my ass look great! Heels are one of the most preposterous things on the planet to me, but shake your moneymaker if you got it.
Sanman Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 The first date sort was simply a walk around the boardwalk but we hit it off so well that first time that I paid the second time. Most of the other women between marriages though were strictly fun and I wasn't about to shell out big bucks for them. I tend to be a very generous person but resent it when people think they are entitled. When a woman thinks I need to break my wallet because she is such a special princess it makes me not want to spend a dime. When she doesn't act like she is entitled to it I want to go all out for her. I definitely can second that feeling.
zengirl Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 The first date sort was simply a walk around the boardwalk but we hit it off so well that first time that I paid the second time. Most of the other women between marriages though were strictly fun and I wasn't about to shell out big bucks for them. I tend to be a very generous person but resent it when people think they are entitled. When a woman thinks I need to break my wallet because she is such a special princess it makes me not want to spend a dime. When she doesn't act like she is entitled to it I want to go all out for her. Interesting. I was just wondering. And I don't think men have to pay for stuff just because they are men, though -- as I've said many times -- most of the men I know well do WANT to pay for dates (but with women they consider GF material and awesome, not just because they get to spend an evening with a woman ) in many cases, which to me is not the same thing. But I think they often will when they dig a girl. So I'm not surprised you paid for the 2nd date. And yes, the best first dates are simple and cheap (sometimes free) anyway, as it's not about spending money. . . it's about spending time together.
LoveandSuch Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 No, I have been on many actual dates. Really, who was wearing the heels?
zengirl Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Really, who was wearing the heels? I never meant to start anything adversarial with the heels, FTR. I think Sanman is alright. And I don't think he really wears heels. (Well, he considers mens dress shoes heels, which is weird, but real heels.) I just thought it was a funny image.
Sanman Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 I never meant to start anything adversarial with the heels, FTR. I think Sanman is alright. And I don't think he really wears heels. (Well, he considers mens dress shoes heels, which is weird, but real heels.) I just thought it was a funny image. Lol, well I don't really consider them heels. I was making a point that men's shoes do have elevated heels.
Sanman Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Really, who was wearing the heels? Yet again, you express the maturity of a small child. I can see why you might feel the need for others to pay for you. Let me know when you have a man. I'll have to speak to him about having his woman speak to someone that way.
Sanman Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Sorry, don't do douchebags either. No kitty for you, here. Stick with your gf, the fact you managed to bag one, I imagine was one of great strength and tribulation for you. She, enjoying the man heels, speaks volumes of her, she's a better woman than I Any woman who loves a cheap man in heels has my bow. Not really, she introduced herself to me and let me know she was interested. We both agree that she is a better woman than you though.
LoveandSuch Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Not really, she introduced herself to me and let me know she was interested. We both agree that she is a better woman than you though. Yes, I completely agree, she is a much better suited woman for you than ((((I))))). We agree!
LoveandSuch Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Yet again, you express the maturity of a small child. I can see why you might feel the need for others to pay for you. Let me know when you have a man. I'll have to speak to him about having his woman speak to someone that way. I do have a man. We are long distance AND for the horror to all the men on this thread, he bought me, some beautiful jewlery when he visited last, on his own. Very memorable pieces, that I will wear everyday close to my heart.
donnamaybe Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 I rarely ever paid for dates and I had women coming back for more. I pay when we are in a relationship but until then I am very stingy. Yup. Weeds out the greedy users. And I am sure you don't mean stingy to the point of obnoxious, but the spoiled entitlement I am reading in this thread make me want to Of course someone can afford a luxury car and housekeeper if they only ever dust off their wallet for themselves
LoveandSuch Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Yup. Weeds out the greedy users. And I am sure you don't mean stingy to the point of obnoxious, but the spoiled entitlement I am reading in this thread make me want to Of course someone can afford a luxury car and housekeeper if they only ever dust off their wallet for themselves I do not pay for a date. I am not talking about a long term relationship, where the man has proven he is not a smoocher, user, or loser. I have no problem sharing under those circumstances. If he is a gentleman, and we get along famously, I may even, depending on the attraction level, buy him gifts.
AHardDaysNight Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Nothing is wrong with it, if that's what both people in the relationship want. However, like it's been said, if it's a pressure situation, it's not good. The man should feel comfortable paying.
Sanman Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 I do not pay for a date. I am not talking about a long term relationship, where the man has proven he is not a smoocher, user, or loser. I have no problem sharing under those circumstances. If he is a gentleman, and we get along famously, I may even, depending on the attraction level, buy him gifts. Wow, this is exactly how I treat women except I go dutch on dates. It is like you are a walking poster child for a double standard.
LoveandSuch Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Wow, this is exactly how I treat women except I go dutch on dates. It is like you are a walking poster child for a double standard. Sanmam, if it is working out for you, wonderful, love your woman! Love that what you are doing is working for you. I happen to go on dates with men who pick restaurants that have no prices on the menu, and splurge for the best Cab in stock, at times 2 bottles. If he is paying 400+ bucks for a meal, should I have to go dutch, when it is his choice to spend in this way? He does not wish for me to go dutch, and at the times I mentioned it, they have generally seemed my asking to be quite rude.
Sanman Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Sanmam, if it is working out for you, wonderful, love your woman! Love that what you are doing is working for you. I happen to go on dates with men who pick restaurants that have no prices on the menu, and splurge for the best Cab in stock, at times 2 bottles. If he is paying 400+ bucks for a meal, should I have to go dutch, when it is his choice to spend in this way? He does not wish for me to go dutch, and at the times I mentioned it, they have generally seemed my asking to be quite rude. Ahh, I never said that a man wanting to spend money on you was wrong. In fact, in my first post in this thread I stated as much. I stated it is wrong to expect all men to do so. I also did not call you cheap, refer to your dating partners as a cess pool, or demand that ALL women pay for me. You may want to consider what you say as well.
Imajerk17 Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 I'm preparing myself for the backlash I'm gonna get for asking this question, but I really am curious. What is wrong with a man wanting to "take care of" his woman? Now I guess "take care of" could mean several things, whether its pay the living expenses, or pay for all the dates, or take her on trips, etc. If a man makes good money and is successful and WANTS to do this, what is wrong with that? Why is there such hatred for it? Are men that can't afford to do this, jealous? I mean if you make good money and don't think you should, than thats fine and great, its your money and your decision. You should live how you want to. I'm talking about the men that WANT to. Sometimes even women want to do this for the man in their life. I just don't understand why so many people are angry about it. I think the women on the receiving end get the most backlash. But it is HER life. Do what you wanna do with your life, but why be so opinionated of the way someone else lives? Nothing! But I'm looking for a sugarmomma to take care of me. Any takers, Loveshack ladies??
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