AZNNTYCE Posted April 30, 2004 Share Posted April 30, 2004 ok theres this girl that i like and i posted on here recently and everyone said to take it easy and just start seeing each other first instead of jumping into a relationship. well.... i asked her to come out for dinner and see a movie tonight and she agreed, but the problem is.... she asked me if it was a date.i didnt know what to say so i said "what do you want" and she said to me "id prefer if it wasnt" is it just me or is this girl NOT interested at all. its really confusing because sometimes i think she does have feelings and other time i dont know. she calls me up everynight to talk and we sometimes would talk about relationships and how i had a 2 year relationship without getting "bored" of one another. is she hinting something to me? this girl is so sweet and i do care about her very much. she is younger then me 2 years and everything about her i like. she gots the best personality and gorgous looks. she likes a real life mary, from the movie "something like mary" every thursday she would go down to the sports centre and help the disabled either play sports or help them read. i think this girl is one of teh best thing that happened in my life and i dont want to her her go just like that. i finally met a girl that wants to get to know me for me and doesnt care about my car. my last few gf's went out with me because of my car, because its been i the car show. and this girl doesnt even care about it, she even encourages me not to take!?!? !!?! well you guys heard the story and i need advice because im going out with her in a few hours. its a very confusing situation and i really want to be with this girl. please help me and tell me what i should do next. thanks Link to post Share on other sites
morrigan Posted April 30, 2004 Share Posted April 30, 2004 To my mind, you asked her out on a date. Maybe this girl is just as nervous as you about calling it a date. She may like you a lot, or she might consider you just a friend--it's hard to tell at this point. Either way, there's no reason not to go and have a good time being around her. Go out and have a good evening with her, talk and make her laugh. Be yourself. There is no need to be serious or to have expectations of a relationship from one date. A date hopefully consists of getting better acquainted with a person who interests you, and enjoy a meal or an activity with no set further strings attached. If you have a great time, call her up in a couple of days and ask her if she'd like to go eat out with you again. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author AZNNTYCE Posted April 30, 2004 Author Share Posted April 30, 2004 ill keep you posted when i get back from our "meeting" tonight. thankx for the advice Link to post Share on other sites
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