guccimane99 Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 I will tell you this i have finally moved on from both my exes and man does it feel good. The first ex never really came back you can read my story here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t271193/?highlight=guccimane99 and the second one were friends. I visit her at work because we gave it time and the air cleared she sent me a friend request i added her one day she messaged me and we have been friends since then. She had been my friend forever and going there she has metioned things as i was one of the best bf's she has ever had. She said i do know how to take care of myself and thats a good thing. I will tell you i did get really upset and wanted to find out the reason why my first ex blocked me when i unblocked her but i realize when shes over me and the relationship we can hopefully become friends and if not then not. These ex's dont owe me anything and i dont owe them anything. The best thing i have learned from this all is be YOU and love YOURSELF. Take the time to work on yourself wether its spending and extra five minutes in the bathroom putting gel in your hair, or spending extra money to find clothes that make you look good, and bring out your best attributes. Above all take care of yourself because when you do everyone notices even your ex's. Believe me no hard work goes unnoticed. If your asking what i am doing now... Well i met someone who i fell for waitied a couple months and realized she wants to live her life, but have me there for her when everything fails. I decided it was best to move on she wanted to wait to see and i was ready and i knew what i wanted, she didnt i pray everynight for the best for her and everyone (even you reading this who i probably never met.) I know deep down in my heart you will in the end be happy and through reading this you decided to go to the gym, spend an extra five minutes shaving or gelling your hair and even getting new clothes because in the end no one wants to be wiith someone who doesn't love themselves. Best of luck and if you need anything message below or send me a private message.
Arikel Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 I agree! Taking that tiny bit of extra effort for yourself boosts your self confidence, and makes it easier to face the day even though you're sad inside
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