Projectnicole Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over two years now. He is 29 and I am 26. I work for my parents at their company and they aren't doing so well anymore so I have to find a job quick. I was getting way overpaid by my parents and since I am fresh out of college and only have a year or two of administrative assistant skills to put on my resume there is no way I'm going to be making as much as I was. This means I have to move out of my studio apartment and start looking for jobs and shared housing. I live in San Francisco and housing costs are really expensive, especially when you have a dog like me. It just so happens that my boyfriend has a sweet deal. He has a two bedroom apartment that accepts dogs, and it looks like his female housemate might even be moving out in the next one to two months. If I moved in my financial situation would be way less dire and then I could just focus on getting a job and working really hard at that job. However, my boyfriend said he loved me, but he isn't ready for me to move in. I feel really puzzled as to why he wouldn't want to help me out. We've been dating two years and we've even discussed getting married in the future. I've found myself feeling really angry toward him. I don't want to force him to do something he doesn't want to do, but it makes me wonder how serious he really is about this relationship. Does anyone have any advice or thoughts? Was your boyfriend awkward about moving in and than get over it?
shadowofman Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 I tend to move in with women or they move in with me extremely quickly. May last ex moved in with me two weeks after we met. That relationship lasted 8 years. She is still the love of my life but I moved out six months ago. But I promise that I will be as hard about it as your boyfriend is in the future. I don't want to make that mistake again.
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