Pierre Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Incorrect. You clearly don't know any "CEO level guys." We don't know the ceo or the op. I don't know if she is a gold digger, but she did not score brownie points by accepting the 800 dollar shoes. This is all about giving the wrong impression. Some may go as far as to say that a woman that is not a gold digger would decline the gift.
Pierre Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Patagonia, thanks for the follow up You're right. The guy is probably gone after he got what he wanted. I could only cry my heart out, in my pretty shoes. http://www.neimanmarcus.com/store/catalog/prod.jhtml?itemId=prod58470075&parentId= I won't give out the cookie so fast next time. The original poster admits she sold the vagina (or cookie ) for the shoes. So why are we having this argument? I have seen similar shoes in Payless. Or at least to my eyes they look the same.
ilovedhim Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 I have seen similar shoes in Payless. Or at least to my eyes they look the same. Lol i read through the entire thread and this is the best post Trust me they hurt just the same at the end of the night
ilovedhim Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 OP, i dont think you had sex too soon or wrong for accepting the gift. I probably would've just waited until after his trip since you're not in a committed R
Hot Chick Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Are you joking? A girl who accepts $800 shoes, and makes a successful CEO "impress her" isn't a gold digger? Yeah ok, I'm the president of the united states. How is she "making" him do those things? HE'S the one who is choosing to do this. Maybe he really likes her and this is his way of courting. It's not all about the "vagina." He got her a birthday gift - he likes her and knew it was her birthday! How is she to blame that a CEO asked her out on dates? Dates usually involve restaurants, and the asker chooses the restaurant....like someone else mentioned, proportionately this probably isn't that big of deal to him, like when you spend 68 on a meal shared with a date, he might spend a couple hundred....you buy a $60 bouquet of flowers, he buys $800 shoes....proportionally it is the same for him. He obviously likes this girl so far.
Hot Chick Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 The original poster admits she sold the vagina (or cookie ) for the shoes. So why are we having this argument? I have seen similar shoes in Payless. Or at least to my eyes they look the same. Where exactly does she admit she "sold her vagina (cookie) for the shoes?" she said she did get intimate with him after 5 dates....doesn't say she slept with him because he bought her the shoes as an arrangement. HE BOUGHT THEM FOR A BIRTHDAY GIFT. IF HE BOUGHT HER A $60 bouquet of flowers or bottle of wine, would that be any different? I don't see it that way because to him proportionally with what he earns $800 shoes are normal. Also he obviously wanted to buy something she would really like...for her BIRTHDAY.
Ruby Slippers Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Some may go as far as to say that a woman that is not a gold digger would decline the gift. In my 20s, I routinely turned down gifts of all kinds and amounts from guys who wanted to date me and guys I was in serious relationships with, because of my own silly hangups about money, obligation, and independence. Looking back, I think it was pretty foolish not to take the things they offered freely, that they in fact wanted to give. If someone gives you a gift, take it. You don't owe them anything in return. A thank you is nice.
Pierre Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 In my 20s, I routinely turned down gifts of all kinds and amounts from guys who wanted to date me and guys I was in serious relationships with, because of my own silly hangups about money, obligation, and independence. Looking back, I think it was pretty foolish not to take the things they offered freely, that they in fact wanted to give. If someone gives you a gift, take it. You don't owe them anything in return. A thank you is nice. You may have gained a gift, but you lost your pride.
Pierre Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Where exactly does she admit she "sold her vagina (cookie) for the shoes?" she said she did get intimate with him after 5 dates....doesn't say she slept with him because he bought her the shoes as an arrangement. HE BOUGHT THEM FOR A BIRTHDAY GIFT. IF HE BOUGHT HER A $60 bouquet of flowers or bottle of wine, would that be any different? I don't see it that way because to him proportionally with what he earns $800 shoes are normal. Also he obviously wanted to buy something she would really like...for her BIRTHDAY. Celebrating her birthday with wine and flowers is not the same as 800.00 shoes. She stated she will not give away the cookie so soon next time. Obviiously she does not feel right about this. She also does not know how to act in another thread. She feels ackward.
Hot Chick Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Yes but that doesn't mean she had sex with him just because he gave her shoes.
charagher Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 dont worry, lets see a week later. if he's still like that. you may to got suspicious
musemaj11 Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Incorrect. You clearly don't know any "CEO level guys." Maybe you are right. A lot of rich men became rich because they are such losers that they think the only way for them to get a woman is by having a lot of money and spending them on her. I mean I could imagine Mark Zuckerber being one of such guys ...
ThsAmericanLife Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 Incorrect. You clearly don't know any "CEO level guys." I'm pretty sure Bill Gates didn't buy his now wife, Melinda Gates, $800 shoes for her birthday on/before their 5th date. I'm also pretty sure Melinda didn't give it up on/before the 5th date. I hear she's a pretty strict Roman Catholic.
Author confusedgirl56 Posted August 11, 2011 Author Posted August 11, 2011 Thanks for your support and kind words, Hot Chick, Ruby Slippers, daphne
Author confusedgirl56 Posted August 11, 2011 Author Posted August 11, 2011 Thanks for your advice, Ayla, Sm1tten, April72
Author confusedgirl56 Posted August 11, 2011 Author Posted August 11, 2011 For the people here who think I had sex with him for the shoes, you're jumping to conclusions. Sex would have happened anyway. He was dashing and had this power thing going on, which was a huge turn on for me. The sex was so good that I probably would have got him a pair of shoes, if that was what he wanted. But at the time, I think he had other things that he would rather have.
Ruby Slippers Posted August 11, 2011 Posted August 11, 2011 The sex was so good that I probably would have got him a pair of shoes, if that was what he wanted. I know exactly what you mean.
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