micot Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 hey ppl ex dumpped me 2 1/2 months ago ,we were together for 4 years we've known each other prior for 2 before we started datting. we've had some low contact sometimes good convos ,sometimes not so good .i never got a solid reason why we broke up ,i get ''i did nothing wrong'' AT the begining i asked why i got ''i'm not in love with you anymore'' etc . she says she considers me a ''friend'' even a ''dear friend'' ,i believe she left me for someone else [i don't know if their still together or anything] i still do have feelings for her , she says she thinks of me a-lot ,she's concerned about me WHEN she says we're ''friends'' how do you respond to that ? i've told her it don't feel like we're friends right now -i believe her girl-friends are influencig her and want her to be single so they have someone else to go out with -and i think she's a bit confused about me our relationship was good [even she admits that ] i told her she had my heart, she said at one time i had hers also ,iknow 6 years of feelings don't just disapear . how do you resspond to the we're ''friends'' when she says it ?
Eddie Edirol Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 You tell her "I have enough friends.....have a nice life". Dont settle for friends when you still have feelings for her, it will get you nowhere. cut her off and go find someone who will communicate to you when you do things that willl make them fall out of love with you.
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