Cypress25 Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 The pull-out method has a 28% failure rate, with perfect use. She can get pregnant even if you pull out in time. If she's not on the pill and she's insisting that you go without a condom, then she probably is hoping for an "accident." I can't imagine it's because she enjoys 45-second sex.
Enchanted Girl Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 I can only cum half the times with a condom if I really clear my mind. Without one, I feel the urge in less than a minute but it's just the urge. I then stop because we both don't want an accident. I don't actually cum without a condom because I'd rather play it safe. There was one time I let my self go all the way and then pulled out. I'd say the whole experience lasted about 45 seconds. My g/f complains to me that all her other past b/f could cum with a condom. Then again she also tells me I'm a sex god. Go figure, women are fickle. I'm sure it just that she feels sexy when I loose my wad. I'd like to go all the way but I've read how the pullout method is a very poor way of birth control. Personally I know my body well and could pull out but it's not something I'm comfortable with. Is the pullout method really good or not? So you're holding out on cumming with her at all then? That's what I assume you mean by "going all the way." This would greatly upset me as well. In the beginning of our relationship, with condoms, my boyfriend couldn't cum at all and honestly, I cried after every single time we had sex because I felt repulsive. I'd enjoy myself in the moment and then when he didn't finish, I'd get really upset. The pullout method is bad, but you two need to work something else out. Have you tried thinner condoms? Or lambskin condoms? Or some other method like birth control pills? Seriously, I almost broke up with my boyfriend over this because I figured we had no sexual chemistry.
Author zig Posted August 12, 2011 Author Posted August 12, 2011 So you're holding out on cumming with her at all then? That's what I assume you mean by "going all the way." This would greatly upset me as well. In the beginning of our relationship, with condoms, my boyfriend couldn't cum at all and honestly, I cried after every single time we had sex because I felt repulsive. I'd enjoy myself in the moment and then when he didn't finish, I'd get really upset. The pullout method is bad, but you two need to work something else out. Have you tried thinner condoms? Or lambskin condoms? Or some other method like birth control pills? Seriously, I almost broke up with my boyfriend over this because I figured we had no sexual chemistry. I do cum, with a condom, or she lets me wack off while she watches. But I don't feel safe doing the pullout method. I'll do it when everything is dry and new but as soon as I feel any kind of contractions I just stop. Then I don't want to go back in in fear of a couple of swimmers ready to launch. She doesn't want to go on the pill because she doesn't want the hassle of taking it on time and knows she'll forget. Also she doesn't want condoms (at least not in the heat of the moment). And yeah, I have tried many different condoms. The ones I'm using now I like the best. Oh, one other thing I forget to mention. I wack off almost daily sooo I'm sure that has a factor in it. I have a high sex drive.
Eternal Sunshine Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 Recent experiences: My ex bf: With no condom, cums in less than a minute (even when he tries not to). With ultra-thin condom, cums in about 3-5 minutes. With heavy-duty regular condom, cums in about 10-20 minutes. So yeah, I preferred him to use the condoms. Cuming in less than a minute does nothing for me. My ex ex bf: With no condom, cums in 30 minutes With any kind of condom, cums in 1-2 hours or not at all. I honestly do not feel the difference in sensation.
Author zig Posted August 12, 2011 Author Posted August 12, 2011 I wonder if circumcision plays a role in this issue... for both sides.
Cypress25 Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 She doesn't want to go on the pill because she doesn't want the hassle of taking it on time and knows she'll forget. Also she doesn't want condoms (at least not in the heat of the moment). Hahaha, I love it when people don't want to use any form of birth control but they don't want to get pregnant either. You can't have it both ways, you're gonna have to pick a method. I wack off almost daily sooo I'm sure that has a factor in it. That might have something to do with it. Doing it too often can desensitize you and make it harder to orgasm from sex.
threebyfate Posted August 12, 2011 Posted August 12, 2011 My preference is sex without a condom. Major sensation difference of skin on skin, rather than skin on something. This might be because I don't use toys so anything besides skin on skin, feels off. The best type of condom from a natural sensation perspective has been polyisoprene and even then, it's no comparison to condomless. I'm allergic to natural latex. Since we started trying to have our second child, we've used no birth control on either side. Oh...My! It not only feels wonderful, it also calls to the primitive within! Hawtness!
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