AHardDaysNight Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 I think it's really up to debate. If a woman is a swinger, there's nothing wrong with it. However, if she wants a relationship, she needs to actually wait before something like this happens. And if anybody is uncomfortable with doing it, they shouldn't feel pressured into doing it. That's rape. Even within a committed relationship - no means no.
ptp Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Well, none of us really know the dynamics of their RS so I wouldn't jump into any conclusions. Yup she is an expert and drawing conclusions based on assumptions she makes. Not mention that she comes off as judgmental.
CatNtheHat Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Yup she is an expert and drawing conclusions based on assumptions she makes. Not mention that she comes off as judgmental. if you say so.
ptp Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 if you say so. No only am I saying so, there is evidence of this in another thread.
CatNtheHat Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 no only am i saying so, there is evidence of this in another thread. ok........
Leumas Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Women go down on men too! I just don't want the stuff on my face. If a man doesn't want to go down on a woman, he doesn't have to. But just because he does, doesn't mean women have to make it "even" and take a shot to her face. What is gross about it exactly? Is it less disgusting on your boobs, stomach, bum, vagina? I've actually heard of women who make the guy pull out and cum into towel. Pretty insulting if you ask me.
CatNtheHat Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 What is gross about it exactly? Is it less disgusting on your boobs, stomach, bum, vagina? I've actually heard of women who make the guy pull out and cum into towel. Pretty insulting if you ask me. Your face is the one place I don't think that should go. Especially in a non committed relationship.
Professor X Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 What is gross about it exactly? Is it less disgusting on your boobs, stomach, bum, vagina? I've actually heard of women who make the guy pull out and cum into towel. Pretty insulting if you ask me. My ex forced me to cum in a cup.. a few minutes later a friend of mine came and drank from that cup (we were in a party).
CatNtheHat Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 My ex forced me to cum in a cup.. a few minutes later a friend of mine came and drank from that cup (we were in a party). seriously disgusting.
make me believe Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Um, so anyway, I don't understand the comparisons between a guy going down on a girl and a guy cumming on a girl's face. I have never had a guy go down on me and then emerge with stuff running down all over his face, getting in his eye, gunked up in his hair, etc. It's really a non-comparison. A guy going down on a girl is comparable to a girl going down on a guy. Period. It's NOT the same as a guy jizzing all over the girl's face and then leaning back to admire his handywork.
Leumas Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Um, so anyway, I don't understand the comparisons between a guy going down on a girl and a guy cumming on a girl's face. I have never had a guy go down on me and then emerge with stuff running down all over his face, getting in his eye, gunked up in his hair, etc. It's really a non-comparison. A guy going down on a girl is comparable to a girl going down on a guy. Period. It's NOT the same as a guy jizzing all over the girl's face and then leaning back to admire his handywork. Well until the guy blows his load the only bodily fluid the woman has to deal with is her own spit. Not sure if you are dry as a desert but when I go down on a girl my face gets wet and it's not just my own spit. Sometimes it's not so pleasant but I love it anyway.
shadowofman Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Maybe it is disgusting to have a sloppy human mucus on your face. But who cares because it looks sexy. And that's the point. It's a visual stimulation. It's like pouring chocolate sauce on your body (something I find to be more of a mess). Since the largest sex organ is the brain, this is a way of stimulating some folks. And it's really not a big deal. I've had cum on my face before. So what.
Severely Unamused Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 My ex forced me to cum in a cup.. a few minutes later a friend of mine came and drank from that cup (we were in a party). Ah, the old cup n' cum trick. Anyway, it ultimately comes down to what you feel comfortable doing, OP. If you're alright with a milk jelly shower...great. If not, then your partners need to respect that. I do think that you are over-analysing his behaviour somewhat. Me? I can take 'em or leave 'em.
Alma Mobley Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 I think it's hot. Then again, the only person I do it with is my husband.
Ross MwcFan Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 What if someone really wanted heroin, would you give it to her? To answer your question I will give you an extreme example (but 100% true): I dated a girl for a few years and I met her when she was in a bad state of life. In short, her source of income was allowing a guy to beat the crap out of her for money. Weird, yes. Did she really want it? Well, she went voluntarily to him and she could have earned money other ways. So it was her choice to do it. Was it harmful to her? Absolutely, but she let it occur. So even if someone 'wants' something, it doesn't mean it's good for them. Um, jizzing in someone's face doesn't cause any harm to them. It's nothing like heroin or beating the crap out of someone. Are you seriously for real?
betterdeal Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 LOL, what an overreaction. You can't really compare heroin nor physical violence to some seaman on the face, given the fact that the woman wanted it; She likes it and as long as you don't mind doing it, I see no harm. Why not? It's their body and their choice. Some men like to box - that's violence. Would you class that as extreme and therefore incomparable?
Movingthrough Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 The reality is I can see why some would see it as disrespectful but guys like it because in sex we do what turns us on. It's something "different" then the normal thing so it's a turn on. I've never heard any of my buddies or anyone I know say that they did it because they don't respect the girl, most of the time it's they feel for them and the person turns them on, so they want to do it.
utterer of lies Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Its not about dominance or trying to disrespect you. Of course it's about (male) dominance and (female) submission. That's what makes it hot. Doesn't have anything to do with disrespect though.
JHS Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Um, jizzing in someone's face doesn't cause any harm to them. It's nothing like heroin or beating the crap out of someone. Are you seriously for real? Yes, I am for real. I said it was an extreme example. You say it doesn't cause harm - you mean physical harm. There are other types harms and I am trying to get you to see that.
Leumas Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 This is such a ridiculous argument. Sex is fun and .....ummm.... sexy! Rolling around and getting all wet and sweaty while having sex is fun and sexy! Spraying cum on a body, a face, or wherever is fun and sexy. If a woman feels seriously harmed, degraded, damaged, etc, from having cum sprayed on her then she probably has some other issues or the guy she's having sex with is doing something to make her feel like that. Just because there are some disgusting and demeaning porn videos out there doesn't mean that every man wants the same.
SmileFace Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 haha everytime I see this thread title-all I can think is SPLAT!!! badbad smile! lol
sm1tten Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 I'm not into it, but I don't find it demeaning or dangerous. I don't get that at all. Nor do I get the assertion that people who engage in this are of a certain type or engage in certain behaviors.
TBH Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 its cool but just dont get it in your eye, stings like a bitch
Feelin Frisky Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Like I can aim that. LOL! It goes where it goes. Right? (rhetorial) There's no aiming and watching. It's just looks that way in porn.
Feelin Frisky Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 (edited) ... I certainly got my stuff all over them plenty. mmmmm, special stuff Edited August 10, 2011 by Feelin Frisky
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