cerridwen Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 What if she really wanted it and didn't find it disrespectful herself? Would you still think it was disrespectful to jizz on her face? Yeah! What then!
Feelin Frisky Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 It happens so often in porn because porn is made for men and men aren't watching it for the tenderness of all the fu_king. It isn't called a money shot for nothing. People shouldn't take porn to be representative of reality. It's staged for the guy in a hurry to get off with his hand--simple as that. Life is a lot different between real people--unless of course duffus guys take porn to represent real reality too and want to duplicate it. That's another discussion.
SmileFace Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 Maybe he's proud of it. Maybe he wants you to see what he made. Haha the image of this in my head is amusing I don't really see the big deal if it ends up on my face, hair or whatever. We are having SEX!...not playing clean up. However if he makes it a point where it has to be on my face since it is something he seen in a porno. What the hell.Ugh, I mean there are so many other body parts. Face? really?
Layzie89 Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 I remember the first time I came on my ex gf's face. She was my first and this is before we've ever had intercourse. Going into it I thought it would be fun and masculine to do (mind you I was 15 at the time) as I've seen it in pornos and such. Came on her face, a feeling of guilt and disrespect for my girlfriend immediately overcame me. I felt horrible. Stood there, watching my girlfriend eyes closed, nostrils plugged...lips sealed shut, wanting so desperately to gasp for air but couldn't. She finally wiped some off so she can breath and from that moment on I never came on her face again. It's degrading imo. I loved her too much to ever do that to her again and she agreed, it wasn't as fun as it looks in pornos. I guess to answer your question...I'm sure alot of guys are just into that kind of dominating, alpha-male status behavior. Women are inferior to them so they deserve to get jizzed on the face for being such pitiful beings.
JHS Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 Why do guys like to cum on girls faces? Is it true that if a guy you are dating wants to cum on your face it is because he doesn't respect you? Call me old fashioned, I detest and would never do that. I see that as degrading to females.
betterdeal Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 It's the porn equivalent to a first person shoot 'em up like Quake. I know men and women who like it, but most also like cocaine and are either bipolar or otherwise mentally unstable. They don't ask, they just do, in the heat of the moment. And it is about dominance for him and it is about submission for her, and you can see that as degradation if you wish, but lots of women like a man to dominate in different ways from time to time. The taboo nature is also a turn on for some - the being dirty is what excites them. They're also, all, without fail, afraid of actual intimacy, either due to abuse in their pasts, small penises or other similar causes for such neurosis. I don't like it, personally. It's a contrived fad; being different in the same way as everyone else (like tatoos and other al la carte statements and self expression). If, like Frisky describes, it ends up there as a side effect of actual sex then it's funny and naughty and rude, to me. As for comparing it with cunnilingus, cunt juices end up on your as a side effect, not because someone threw a pussy flavoured custard pie in you face.
JHS Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 What if she really wanted it and didn't find it disrespectful herself? Would you still think it was disrespectful to jizz on her face? What if someone really wanted heroin, would you give it to her? To answer your question I will give you an extreme example (but 100% true): I dated a girl for a few years and I met her when she was in a bad state of life. In short, her source of income was allowing a guy to beat the crap out of her for money. Weird, yes. Did she really want it? Well, she went voluntarily to him and she could have earned money other ways. So it was her choice to do it. Was it harmful to her? Absolutely, but she let it occur. So even if someone 'wants' something, it doesn't mean it's good for them.
Ruby Slippers Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 I've never been with a guy who wanted to do this. We talked about it, and the consensus was: Why would I want to come on you when I can come in you? They all agreed it would be less pleasurable to withdraw before coming. A couple of them did want to come on my butt or boobs now and then, though, just for something different. I didn't mind it. I certainly got my stuff all over them plenty.
musemaj11 Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Money shot is something I like to watch in porn, but Im not really interested in doing it in real life.
Professor X Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 What if someone really wanted heroin, would you give it to her? To answer your question I will give you an extreme example (but 100% true): I dated a girl for a few years and I met her when she was in a bad state of life. In short, her source of income was allowing a guy to beat the crap out of her for money. Weird, yes. Did she really want it? Well, she went voluntarily to him and she could have earned money other ways. So it was her choice to do it. Was it harmful to her? Absolutely, but she let it occur. So even if someone 'wants' something, it doesn't mean it's good for them. LOL, what an overreaction. You can't really compare heroin nor physical violence to some seaman on the face, given the fact that the woman wanted it; She likes it and as long as you don't mind doing it, I see no harm.
thehead Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 LOL, what an overreaction. You can't really compare heroin nor physical violence to some seaman on the face, given the fact that the woman wanted it; She likes it and as long as you don't mind doing it, I see no harm. Cosign. You acknowledge it's an extreme comparison but come on. It's more like no comparison.
Art_Critic Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 As a guy I find it disrespectful to the woman. Same here....
Star Gazer Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 As a guy I find it disrespectful to the woman. Agreed. I find it entirely demeaning.
Art_Critic Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 What if she really wanted it and didn't find it disrespectful herself? Would you still think it was disrespectful to jizz on her face? BTDT.. and yes I still found it disrespectful.. just the way I am I guess...
thehead Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 A woman I loved asked me to do it. She was into the whole dominance/submission thing. When I did, it took me by surprise how awkward I felt. It didn't feel like a SHARED experience at all and that's what an orgasm always represented.
johan Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 I've never understood the logic of it. Why not on her shoulder or arm or something. It has to be the face. I don't find the sight of it to be such a turn-on. It takes kissing afterwards pretty much off the table. And it couldn't possibly feel as good as doing it in a more appropriate place. With her arms and legs wrapped around me. Seems illogical and a bit immature to me.
grkBoy Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 I agree with the opinions here on the "why". I just never got into that. Seems messy and ridiculous to spray a girl's face like that. First thing she'll end up doing is going to clean up.
make me believe Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 I think guys like it because it makes them feel like a big man, all alpha-male and whatnot. It's a domination thing, and it turns them on to see the girls face all messed up and gross with their jizz. Eww.. I find it really demeaning in most cases.
Art_Critic Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 First thing she'll end up doing is going to clean up. or screaming.. "my eye" "it's in my eye and it burns" as her eye swells up and turns red...
just_some_guy Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 the guy I'm seeing loves to cum on my face and a friend made a comment to me this afternoon that it means he doesn't see me as girlfriend material. Will he kiss you after doing this? If yes, then, well, I'd think you're definitely GF material.
phineas Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Like I can aim that. LOL! It goes where it goes.
CatNtheHat Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 (edited) the guy I'm seeing loves to cum on my face and a friend made a comment to me this afternoon that it means he doesn't see me as girlfriend material. so your letting a man that you aren't in an exclusive relationship with, cum on your face? wow. Edited August 10, 2011 by CatNtheHat
make me believe Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 so your letting a man that you aren't in an exclusive relationship with, cum on your face? wow. That was my thought too. I think this is becoming more common now, especially among people younger than myself. Yuckkkk!! I would try it if my husband really wanted to, but only because I think when you're married you should be willing to try almost anything your spouse wants. But some guy you're not even exclusive with?? No way! I'm just picturing him running to all his friends going "omg guys, guess what she let me do to her!" I think in order to let a guy do this, you have to KNOW that he won't think less of you, or talk sh*t about what you did to his friends. A lot of guys would go brag to their friends & paint the girl in an unflattering light, imo.
CatNtheHat Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 That was my thought too. I think this is becoming more common now, especially among people younger than myself. Yuckkkk!! I would try it if my husband really wanted to, but only because I think when you're married you should be willing to try almost anything your spouse wants. But some guy you're not even exclusive with?? No way! I'm just picturing him running to all his friends going "omg guys, guess what she let me do to her!" I think in order to let a guy do this, you have to KNOW that he won't think less of you, or talk sh*t about what you did to his friends. A lot of guys would go brag to their friends & paint the girl in an unflattering light, imo. Some people, especially younger people, act like this no big deal. I won't even let my bf do that, not that he wants to. But to let some guy that is probably sleeping with other women, do it, all set.
zlatnapolja Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Why do guys like to cum on girls faces? Is it true that if a guy you are dating wants to cum on your face it is because he doesn't respect you? My ex BF enjoyed coming basically everywhere on my body, but especially my face. I dont mind it, it just bothered me that for some reason it would always end up in my eye.... turns out he did that on purpose. If you dont like it, you dont have to do it. But when you're with the guy for a long time, and things are serious between you two (so you dont have to worry about him disrespecting you), maybe you should let him every once in while, because its not that difficult to clean and if he absolutely love it, it may turn you on aswell. Dont do anything you dont want to!
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