smartguy Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 I want to start an relationship but she lives in another state. I meet this girl about 5 months ago she from my city but she moved. I crazy how this happen I think I found the girl I really want to be with she everything I been looking for in a women. We get along real good with have allot in common. Its just the distance. to see her I may have to take a plane I cant just get up and drive. I finally told her I had feeling for her, I was wondering if i should pursue her into making something more? I think she knows that I like her now she now playing the hard to get game which is normal thing females do. I don't want to let this pass me by I fail many times trying to start an relationship watch I think sometimes hold me back because I try not to make the same mistakes by going to fast or just waiting for her to make the move. the girl I use to talk to i gave so much energy and time that now im just all burnt out, but I dont want to pass up on this. I want to be that confident guy I use to be.. any suggestions that can help I really appreciate it
madjac74 Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 I finally told her I had feeling for her, I was wondering if i should pursue her into making something more? I think she knows that I like her now she now playing the hard to get game which is normal thing females do. I disagree with this. Its not normal for a girl to play hard to get. This isn't medieval times. If they are interested in you then they will show it. She just may not have the same feelings for you that you have for her
mkbrownie Posted August 28, 2011 Posted August 28, 2011 I feel like there are plenty of women who play hard to get, but that's just me...Some women like to feel wanted and will create that by playing hard to get. Regardless, if you are confident that you love her and have known her for that long, then I'd say go for it. You really don't have much to lose.
creighton0123 Posted August 30, 2011 Posted August 30, 2011 You sound pretty young. I would say to forget about it, endure the heartache that comes with lost potential, and move on. I would strongly recommend this if your future so happens to be up in the air. Long distance relationships with a definite timeline are hard enough. If neither of you have any clue as to when the distance would end and you would be able to be together (in person) on a regular basis, it is very, very likely that it will not be a positive experience.
Kendal Pierce Posted September 3, 2011 Posted September 3, 2011 Just be yourself if you ever go and see her in her place. You don't have to put on anything, or impress her that much. Be cordial, courteous and forget to make her smile and have a good laugh every now and then. Women fall for guy who has a good sense of humor as they enjoy this kind of company.
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