dumpedandsore Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 i was dumped cruelly (like a trash) 3 weeks ago by my ex who went silent on me, then told me he wanted a break-up via email. I have been living in agony, pain, misery, tears, doubts for the past few weeks. Everyday, like many of you, I questioned why didnt he choose to communicate with me about the break-up? Why can't we discuss properly as adults and settle it in the most appropriate and fair manner? He knows that i have been dumped by my ex and doesn't want to be hurted again. I waited and waited, i thought with time, he would muster the honour or integrity to talk to me and end the relationship. At least, i feel more respected as an individual and not treated like some worthless object Nope, but he didnt. instead, he treated the break-up never exist, he just moved on without any remorse or misery. He has been up and about wooing and checking up new girls. He even wants to sign up a new course to hook-up and know girls. Then what about me? To him, it is as if i dont matter? I dont even have a physical existence? He doesnt care about how im feeling/doing and dont seem to give a damn about how he has ended with me. he just walked away. I am so angry that i am treated like a hi-bye fling to him. I am not even given the basic respect and treatment like a human being. what should i do?
TaintedHeart Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 (edited) i was dumped cruelly (like a trash) 3 weeks ago by my ex who went silent on me, then told me he wanted a break-up via email. I have been living in agony, pain, misery, tears, doubts for the past few weeks. Everyday, like many of you, I questioned why didnt he choose to communicate with me about the break-up? Why can't we discuss properly as adults and settle it in the most appropriate and fair manner? He knows that i have been dumped by my ex and doesn't want to be hurted again. I waited and waited, i thought with time, he would muster the honour or integrity to talk to me and end the relationship. At least, i feel more respected as an individual and not treated like some worthless object Nope, but he didnt. instead, he treated the break-up never exist, he just moved on without any remorse or misery. He has been up and about wooing and checking up new girls. He even wants to sign up a new course to hook-up and know girls. Then what about me? To him, it is as if i dont matter? I dont even have a physical existence? He doesnt care about how im feeling/doing and dont seem to give a damn about how he has ended with me. he just walked away. I am so angry that i am treated like a hi-bye fling to him. I am not even given the basic respect and treatment like a human being. what should i do? My ex done this too but via text! We were together for three years yet she was quite happy to end it in such a cold cowardly way, it really shocked me! I thought she was better than that. She moved on so quickly, like our relationship was nothing, like it was no big deal. Someone on here said that dumpers actually end the relationship weeks/months before they actually end it with you. The relationship has been over for them for a while. Don't wait around for him, and don't contact him. Stay strong! Edited August 9, 2011 by TaintedHeart
shortee143 Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 My past 2 exes dumped me via phone. There is NOTHING I find more cruel. If you are going to do this, do it with dignity and respect (esp bc I never cheated, or was abusive in any way). It is cowardly, unless you are hours and hours away, there is NO legit reason. People forget that whole "do unto others as you would want done unto you". Call me immature, but gosh my recent ex, I hope his new girl gives him that lovely phone call, see how he likes it.. I never really got any reasons or anything, so dont hold you breath there- just realize you deserve better than to be treated that way. It it hurtful as all hell to have someone you care about so deeply do that though for sure.
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