Jekka Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 ok so here is the thing about 3 months ago my ex broke up with me and this week i went onto a picture of him and realised that he has put on quite alot of weight since we broke up and has had 2 girlfriends since and i was just wondering why he has put on so much weight after our breakup or why he cant seem to keep a girl after our breakup? maybe it is because he isnt over me yet and he put on so much weight because he couldnt handle the stress and keeps eating alot or goes drinking alot, i dont know, please anyone got an opinion on why this is???
Mack05 Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 ok so here is the thing about 3 months ago my ex broke up with me and this week i went onto a picture of him and realised that he has put on quite alot of weight since we broke up and has had 2 girlfriends since and i was just wondering why he has put on so much weight after our breakup or why he cant seem to keep a girl after our breakup? maybe it is because he isnt over me yet and he put on so much weight because he couldnt handle the stress and keeps eating alot or goes drinking alot, i dont know, please anyone got an opinion on why this is??? It's not your problem. You should only be focusing on you. You are just clutching at straws and what he is doing is not your concern. This man is trying to replace one relationship with another, which is very unhealthy. When he is not getting his emotional needs fulfilled within these relationships, then he is seemingly turning to food/drink. I can tell you, he is probably unhappy within himself. When someone is unhappy within himself, you can't help him longterm. The only person that can help him, is him. Do you really want to be with a man that could replace you so quickly? A man that is probably suffering from low self esteem? His insecurities will drag you down Jekka.. It's hard to see somone we once loved struggling but you have to realise 1) they are not your problem anymore and 2) we have to focus on your healing. Don't go to places where you can see pictures. It's time to leave go and move on and ensure you own future happiness. You can't be happy in the future, if your focus is on someone else and not your healing. Try pull this inwards towards you..
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