Lilmisus Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 If y'all look through some of my more recent stories, there was the story of "Mr. Cute Guy" who I met at his job two months ago, and for about three weeks we went on a few dates, had fun, hung out with his friends, kissed a bunch, and promised a weekend together. Never really heard from him after the fourth though. If you look through my threads though, you'll see the full story. Anyway, lately my love life has been the focus of many of the conversations I have with friends. One friend who I hadn't seen since I quit my job back in May told me how she didn't want to say it last year but that I could do sooo much better than my ex who screwed me over, and gave me a lot of love advice (wait for the guy to call you, don't go chasing them, set the standards high, etc...). That along with other things people have told me encouraged me to post my status as "People make me laugh when they tell me things about guys that I already know ;)" Mr Cute Guy (who I added a week after I last heard from him, so a month ago now), had been online for the entire time and less than an hour after posting that status, he wrote on my wall "hey stranger" taking me completely by surprise. He logged off immediately afterward, and I just wrote "Hey you! How've you been?" but he never saw that of course I'm just wondering, what the f is this about? If I hear more from him, I know what my game plan is going to be, but I'm wondering what y'all think about this?
TuffCookieX Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 I'm not responding because I know why, I'm posting cuz I have the same problems. Men who will disappear from my life always reappear in my life usually 3+ months later. Is it cuz their other girl never worked out?
Author Lilmisus Posted August 9, 2011 Author Posted August 9, 2011 I'm not responding because I know why, I'm posting cuz I have the same problems. Men who will disappear from my life always reappear in my life usually 3+ months later. Is it cuz their other girl never worked out? That's what it feels like! Like he had another one month fling, that didn't work out and he has come back to me. Yet instead of texting me like he usually did, he posted it on my Facebook wall. Yesterday, I posted a different status that said "*** and I have decided that we don't want boyfriends, we want boy-friends on the weekends ;)" which was an inside joke between me and three friends. I'm wondering if that also gave me the green light to message me finally? So confused right now
Sanman Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 I'm not responding because I know why, I'm posting cuz I have the same problems. Men who will disappear from my life always reappear in my life usually 3+ months later. Is it cuz their other girl never worked out? This is most likely it.
FitChick Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 He is just keeping tabs on his harem. Ignore unless he sets a date and time for you to meet.
Author Lilmisus Posted August 9, 2011 Author Posted August 9, 2011 Is this restaurant guy? Yes ma'am. And the same guy who I've seen pictures of with other girls and who I know keeps in contact pretty consistently with all of them...including one girl who it's obvious was his high school sweetheart.
Nexus One Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 Do you see the irony in the situation of a guy not contacting you for over a month and then him suddenly saying: "Hey stranger!" Regarding the question "why?". Have you considered he might be going through a dry period and his options for p*ssy dwindled down to you? I know that sounds kind of harsh, but it's a scenario you might want to keep in mind.
D-Lish Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 Yes ma'am. And the same guy who I've seen pictures of with other girls and who I know keeps in contact pretty consistently with all of them...including one girl who it's obvious was his high school sweetheart. Girl... You know what I am going to say already. You're better than him- he showed you his true colours- I told you already that people in the restaurant industry are bad news in this age group. You shouldn't have responded at all- and guess what- if you hadn't? He'd be coming on stronger. Date a guy that appreciates you- there are plenty of them out there, you just have to value yourself enough to pick better guys to date. Be the prize. This dude is a player.
Author Lilmisus Posted August 9, 2011 Author Posted August 9, 2011 Do you see the irony in the situation of a guy not contacting you for over a month and then him suddenly saying: "Hey stranger!" Regarding the question "why?". Have you considered he might be going through a dry period and his options for p*ssy dwindled down to you? I know that sounds kind of harsh, but it's a scenario you might want to keep in mind. Trust me, that's what I first thought when I saw the notification that he wrote on my wall. Sucks for him that I'm not willing to sleep with any guy I'm not in a relationship with and who treat me poorly. It just strikes me as amazing that he thinks it might actually work if that's what he's getting at. You can't disappear for a month then reappear expecting things to be okay. It's easy to see though that there are plenty of girls on his friends list who write on his wall and fight for his attention that he could easily get. I don't think I'm much of a loss for him
DuskCrush Posted August 9, 2011 Posted August 9, 2011 Hmm..its could mean 1) he thought you were feeling like having a fling whn you said u only wanted boyfriends on the weekend 2) you status messages peak his interest. Either case its not a big deal...he is weird...who writes an FB message and then runs away. Remove him from your Fb and move on.
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