prosense Posted August 8, 2011 Posted August 8, 2011 Hi, there. So let me put it simply. Last night, I(I am a guy, btw) participated in a voluntary activity which has been headed by a friend of mine for months. It is an event where every week, except for 4-5 regulars, new members show up. And I, the regular, met a newbie (a new girl).. Before people decided to come, they need to sign up on FB event page.. so everyone basically knows who is coming to the event. Anyhow, as always, I attened and met some newbies (mostly girls) and talked to them. And I met this girl. This was her second time. we talked about things and flirted a bit and I sorta picked on her ( of course, in a very playful way) and we had good laughts. And for some reason, I found her quite similar to me on many levels e.g. personality-wise. Since there were more than 20 people, and I did not want to put her or others under the wrong impression, I kept the convo just friendly and casual. I also talked to some other newbies, since they were all nervous and did not know what to do. Overall, it was a pleasant night in addtion to helping the homeless. Unfortunately, I had to leave in the middle of the activity since I had to catch a train back to my town so did not even have a chance to say good bye to the gal. Then, upon arriving home (an hour after I got onboard), I checked my fb and the girl added me to her FB. And yes, this is NOT the first time a gal added me on FB. but should I think that she is interested in me or something? She is the only person amongst other newbies I talked to last night that added me on fb tho.
Damien Posted August 8, 2011 Posted August 8, 2011 Well, there are a few things to consider first: * Maybe the other members don't 'care' about FB as much (or maybe they haven't been on FB since last night?) * Maybe the girl in question, added other members also? I have a few friends that simply add anyone they come across. If this is the case then you can't be sure if she likes you. I know how you're feeling bud, but you can't be sure of anything at this point. See how things go today and post back on here. If she messages you then it could be a sign she does indeed like you.
Eternal Sunshine Posted August 8, 2011 Posted August 8, 2011 I would initiate FB messaging, exchange few small talk messages and if all goes well suggest something low key (coffee/drink/lunch). The worst you can do is spend weeks/months over-analyzing without making a concrete move.
Ginger Beer Posted August 8, 2011 Posted August 8, 2011 Is it just me that thought this was a bit stalker-ish?
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