My ex wants to get together with me. Help!

[cindy_567]

I have a very serious problem that I hope someone can help me and knock some sense into me. See, I was with this guy for three years. Everything was shaky at the beginning but everything eventually worked out. Towards the end of our relationship, I found out he cheatedon me with different girls. I comfronted him with every single girl. I was pregnant, and we both decided it was not the right time.

 

I forgave him, because I loved him soo much. After all the forgiveness, he left me for another girl. I was devastated! It took me a year to stop crying for him I would always call him to talk, and he never calledhim until this year to apologize for being such a jerk. I refused to accept, but evebtually did, so I could move on. We talk over the phone,and he actually has said he wants to see me. But he emphasizes he has a gf, and I do too.I don't think its fair to the guy I am seeing, because I want to forget about my ex. I live to China in August, I will be away from my ex for another year, equaling two years now. Should I see him this summer, before I leave, or should I never see him again.I still love that bastard! Help!

[come on I'm nick]

And what about your new boyfriend, don't you like him at list? Look, I'm a man, so I can say you that if a man cheated he would never stop doing it. If he's especial only, it could work out. So, you should decide what more important for you, to live with a man you love but cheating you or to find another guy you can be fully happy with. I don't think that you won't find another guy. It's so much people in the world you could fall in love with. Just imagine, you live with your ex loving him but not happy because of his cheating. You're wasting time actually, because you're always wait for him to stop doing it. Believe me you will hope. Finally you'll realize that you've burned your life for nothing, and this is really sad, because we don't have another one. Think it over carefully.