Firstheartbreak Posted August 8, 2011 Posted August 8, 2011 My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago today. You can read the story here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t288654/ Now I find myself finally starting to feel a little bit better. People keep telling me to focus on myself; but how do I do that? I don't know really know what that means or even how to go about it. I've been reduced to just sitting in my room doing nothing, I don't feel like doing anything even though I have things to get done. I've come to the decision that even though she broke my heart I want her back but in time. There are things that I need to do, things that I need to work on before that or even dating other women can happen. I need to become more confident and learn how to actually be social. I'm an engineering student so these things do not come easily. What I'm wondering is how to focus on myself, become more confident and increase my social circle. If anyone can give me some advice I would really appreciate it. Thanks in advance.
Kk47 Posted August 8, 2011 Posted August 8, 2011 Hey man that's cool that you are in engineering, I am a senior this year in EE as well. About your situation bro, I think w.e you do, you should do for yourself. Don't try to get yourself to a more desirable level for your ex. These things take time just try not to think about her too much. Most importantly, you do not want to hope/think she is coming back because you will just face more disappointment. I think what you should do right now is 1. improve yourself to build self confidence up (workout, tan, new wardrobe etc..) 2. Go out and spoil yourself and appreciate being in the company of just yourself. 3. Go hunt for a new chick. If you want to maximize your potential of finding a good girl make a profile on dating sites like plentyoffish.com, match.com, facebook.com, myspace.com and any other ones. Try to find someone different than your ex. 4.Don't think about your ex. Its not "rude" or "inconsiderate" to not think about her, because chances are she is not thinking about you either. That should hold you off for starters, good luck man!
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