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I have a post below.. about one issue and now I'm worried for another reason. Long story short.. Had an arguement with bf yesterday. He is away for work, he wasn't working this weekend though. So we argued, he hung up on me and I haven't heard from him since. Its been a full day. Not like him at all. Tried his phone- all I get is vm, hasn't responded to textes.

 

Called him per an issue at our apartment and since his name is on the lease, our condo maintenance wanted to speak to him, but they weren't able to reach him either. I called the hotel, he didn't answer the phone there. The girl at the desk had someone go to his room to check, but he isn't there either. He is in Canada, I'm in the US. Same time frame. If he was angry and just not wanting to speak to me, I think he would let me know that. I sent him a text asking him to please let me know he is ok, but I got nothing. He walks around with a backpack and his laptop in it. He didn't rent a car, so I'm now imagining all these scary scenarios. Don't know what to do. Getting to the point, hotel is going to think I'm nuts.

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Have you texted him you want to speak with him about an issue with the apartment?

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Have you texted him you want to speak with him about an issue with the apartment?

 

 

Yes. I have gotten nothing.

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Hopefully there's nothing wrong with him. If he is just ignoring you that's just rude and I would draw the line right there.

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Hope he's okay. But he hang up on you, so he's probably just avoiding you. Give him some time to cool off. Just to get a peace of mind, I would call one of his friends and ask for them to contact him and let you know if he's okay. If thats all you need to know. If his friend gets a hold of him, then you'll know that he doesn't want to talk to you right now. Wait for him to contact you when he's ready to talk to you. Hope that helped.

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Hope he's okay. But he hang up on you, so he's probably just avoiding you. Give him some time to cool off. Just to get a peace of mind, I would call one of his friends and ask for them to contact him and let you know if he's okay. If thats all you need to know. If his friend gets a hold of him, then you'll know that he doesn't want to talk to you right now. Wait for him to contact you when he's ready to talk to you. Hope that helped.

 

After he has cooled off i would let him know that it is not an acceptable thing to do. If he doesnt want to talk then that's fine but he should have the courtesy to text you back saying i'm fine but just need peace right now. He sounds pretty selfish from what I hear.

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