12 month update. Read this if your struggling. Its gets MUCH better

[Preciousmetal]

I was on here about a year ago wanting advice about a girl who broke up with me. At the time i maintained no contact but it was hard, same as it is for anyone. Here is what happened when we broke up though.

I decided to move countries. It was something i was going to do anyway for business but this gave me the springboard i needed to do it. I had 3 months of a quite miserable period in my howetown when i went. I found out she was sleeping with someone, even an ex best friend an her were getting together.

 

So i left. Started a new life and about a week into that i never really thought of her again. I had WAY too much to be getting on with. I met some amazing women. Had some amazing experiences and spent 6 months working my ass off.

I just closed an investment deal on my business that is in the millions and since this time last year i have become massively successful. And to think , i could have been stuck in my old home town with a girl who didnt care about me and something that would only have ended anyway

99% of the time when u break up, thats it. thats the facts. I decided to get used to the idea that it was over. Get used to the fact that it might hurt a bit and use that energy on my business. Right now i couldnt be happier.

 

I met a girl out here. Thinks didnt really work out, in fact i was just asking for an opinion on another thread. Whatever happened though , this time i knew exactly what to do. I didnt chase, walked away when i didnt get what i want, and even though thats hurting me at the moment, its just temporary pain. You will most likely experience it many more times through out your life, dont focus on it. Focus on YOU.

 

Someone else isnt the answer. You are the answer. I slept with about 50 women this year. I had many experiences that i always wanted to have. By the end of that though, i just felt exactly the same as before.

 

Give yourself a 90 day goal. Then a 6 month goal and then a 12 month goal.

If your life is coming to an end because of one person, then your life isnt working for you and you need to try different things.

Picking up and moving may sound drastic but its the best thing i ever did. I never thought about that girl again once i moved and wont ever have the same feelings towards her.

Good lucl

[Livin Lrge]

Good Work....

I think this can be a really good idea for some people....

[Nohbody]

Thanks for coming back and sharing!

[Preciousmetal]

One insignifact person should never have enough affect to shut down your whole life. Things end for a reason and when you look at it in hindsight its clear why it didnt work.

I kinda wish i hadnt mentioned the amount of women i was with but got really into the playboy lifestyle. It was fun for a bit and i thought that had the answer, but really, the only answer is you.

If i had stayed with my ex i would never have left town, i would be millions of dollars poorer and even though it didnt work out, i would not have met a girl that i properly cared about.

Embrace whats happening in your life at the mo and go out and do something positive.

I dare say that now im a made man my previous ex is regretting her decision now!

Go make them regret they left you.

[citrusdrop1688]

lol i really hope all the men on here that have been broken up with dont have the goal of sleeping with 50 new people in the next year. seems very unfulfilling

[Preciousmetal]

I think if i had no baggage and could fully concetrate on my womanising then it would have been fine. I was trying to get with one specific girl though and the more people i slept with, then the more id just think about her. Id mostly jus go find someone else to take my mind off her.

 

On the other side of the coin though. The faster you get through them the faster you might meet someone. And its no mean feat i can tell you. It takes a lot of dedication lol ;P

 

Also to quote Russell Brand. Threesomes just make it twice as fast to find that special someone!

I have actually changed my ways now and moved on from bedding women , something i NEVER thought would get boring.

Ho hum

Edited August 8, 2011 by Preciousmetal

[Mack05]

Millions made, 50 women in one year, Threesomes. Thank you Precious metal. That made me laugh today and we can all do with cheering up on this part of Loveshack :laugh::laugh:

[antinko]

I agree with the sentiment. Although I'm still grieving my ex (more than she deserves...), I know deep down that I'll be better off without her.

[Lostinlife4now]

Preciousmetal!

 

Thank you for posting your story!!! It made me realize there is hope for my life yet!!!!

 

Keep talking, I will keep listening!!!!!;);)

[JHS]

Go make them regret they left you.

 

Great advice.

 

I was going to sign in and whine about this and that, but instead I see this.

 

Awesome, thanks!