DSM2709 Posted August 7, 2011 Posted August 7, 2011 I met this woman online and today we met for the first time for brunch. Now, she seems nice enough but I am not sure if she is interested in me, I don't think she's big into texting, few and far between but she does respond to my texts. We had a nice brunch and we basically sat at the rest. and talked for 2 whole hours. Now to me, that's a good sign, because she wasn't in a rush to leave and we had quite a few things in common to talk about, the conversation kept flowing and I made eye contact along with sharing a couple of laughs. We ended up having to leave because we felt bad we were holding up a table for other people. At the end of the date as we walked to our respective cars, she put out her hand to shake mine, but instead I gave her a hug and I said it was nice to meet her as she said the same. I asked if she wanted to go out again to which she replied yes, but that she was traveling next weekend and so she said I could text her and see what's up. My question is how do I really know if she likes me or is at least interested?, because it seems to me like people don't like to hurt other people so they say yes in person and then you never hear from them. I also don't want to read too much into this either and drive myself crazy. She's young and has no kids although she is divorced. Very attractive. So, what's my next move? Do I wait til mid week to say hello or wait for her to contact me? Side note: I did text her when I got home about a website address we discussed during our brunch, and she responded with "Thank you, enjoy your day!", I then responded with "Thanks, U 2" I think it went well, but need some input. Thanks.
rafallus Posted August 8, 2011 Posted August 8, 2011 My question is how do I really know if she likes me or is at least interested? You ask her out, and she goes with you. Then on a date, you advance on her, and she lets you. That's about it. If you want to know before even asking out, so that you don't want to risk rejection, then tough luck, there is always a risk.
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