somethingsimple Posted August 7, 2011 Posted August 7, 2011 My friend thinks I'm a jerk because I go on dates with girls, simply for the reason cause it'll be fun. She says that I lead them on and I give them the wrong impression. Don't get me wrong, I don't bs anything I say. I don't give them empty promises such as I want a relationship or that I really like you. If I think she's pretty, I'll say she's pretty. If I want to go out with her again, I'll say that too. I simply enjoy going out getting to know someone and going on dates. It excites me. Also, I don't really go on the dates attempting to get laid or hook up. To me, if it happens, it happens. We usually have a great time, or at least I do lol. But for the most part deep down inside, I know I won't get into relationships with these girls. Sometimes, I feel that some of these girls, do want something more. So is this wrong? Should I limit myself to dating girls that I would get into relationship with?
Severely Unamused Posted August 7, 2011 Posted August 7, 2011 Nothing wrong as long as you are honest and respectful about it IMO.
Ginger Beer Posted August 7, 2011 Posted August 7, 2011 Nothing wrong with it as long as you say what your intentions are. Have fun.
betterdeal Posted August 7, 2011 Posted August 7, 2011 Why else would someone go out on a date if not for fun? I mean, it's because it's fun we do it, right?
counterman Posted August 7, 2011 Posted August 7, 2011 Nothing wrong man. Just keep having fun! Plus, it's not like you're making girls miserable - they're having fun too! By the way, a couple of my friends were saying that I was just looking to have sex with girls when asking them out on dates... Turns out they were just dissatisfied with their own non-existent dating lives.
ilikesunita Posted August 7, 2011 Posted August 7, 2011 anything is acceptable in life. Humans naturally date for fun. why else would we do it?
Casablanca Posted August 7, 2011 Posted August 7, 2011 Why else would someone go out on a date if not for fun? I mean, it's because it's fun we do it, right? Yeah, but a lot of people also want it to lead to something more than just a few dates. As long as you are upfront about it there isnt a problem
betterdeal Posted August 7, 2011 Posted August 7, 2011 Yeah, but a lot of people also want it to lead to something more than just a few dates. As long as you are upfront about it there isnt a problem Sure. Depends on how you're meeting people. If the subtext, the implied, is that you're looking more than for a game of kiss chase, but really, that's all you deliver, then that'll annoy people.
grkBoy Posted August 7, 2011 Posted August 7, 2011 My friend thinks I'm a jerk because I go on dates with girls, simply for the reason cause it'll be fun. She says that I lead them on and I give them the wrong impression. Don't get me wrong, I don't bs anything I say. I don't give them empty promises such as I want a relationship or that I really like you. If I think she's pretty, I'll say she's pretty. If I want to go out with her again, I'll say that too. I simply enjoy going out getting to know someone and going on dates. It excites me. Also, I don't really go on the dates attempting to get laid or hook up. To me, if it happens, it happens. We usually have a great time, or at least I do lol. But for the most part deep down inside, I know I won't get into relationships with these girls. Sometimes, I feel that some of these girls, do want something more. So is this wrong? Should I limit myself to dating girls that I would get into relationship with? As long as you're honest with the women you date and they know how far it'll get, then you're not doing anything wrong. If you're making them believe they have a shot with you or withholding the truth and letting them think they might get you as a BF, then you're leading them on. If you are honest with them, but they keep seeing you in a hope to change your mind, but you don't...then they might claim you led them on. It's BS and you shouldn't buy into that. They're just angry because they realize they're not "special enough" to change your mind.
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