noworries Posted April 29, 2004 Posted April 29, 2004 well i never had worries till now. i have been trying to build up the guts to talk to this girl for about 7 months. well i finally did and i got her number. well i called her for a while and set up a time to go out, but i choked on the phone twice (dead air) i couldn't get anything to come out of my mouth no matter how hard i tried. she told me to call her the next day which i did and screwed up again this time i choked three times. normally i am not like this at all when we are in a group, but on the phone or the one time we went out it was like somebody sewed my mouth shut. one of our mutual friends called me and said that she likes me its just i was not talking and she does not like that. how could i blame her i don't either. I'm just had this glitch and i want her to know that, but she has not returned my last two calls. somebody please help tell me how to get rid of the glitch and let her know that it was just a glitch and i can talk..........................thanks
Red Flag Rick Posted April 29, 2004 Posted April 29, 2004 working up the guts to talk to a girl for 7 months? i can only imagine the internal struggle you have endured... but those 7 months could have been used to build up your self-esteem, and the fact that you spent 7 months in agony over this is a huge red flag... and i refuse to believe that you never had worries until now. spending 7 months working up the nerve to talk to a girl tells me otherwise. this is not an action of some superstud with no worries. it is the action of someone who needs to focus some attention on his self-esteem and confidence. why do you think this is just a glitch?
blue16 Posted May 8, 2004 Posted May 8, 2004 what do you mean by a glitch exactly? Like you didn't know what to say, or you just couldn't physically say the words?
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