nice-easy-day Posted August 6, 2011 Posted August 6, 2011 My g/f and I used to have sex on every date but now it's only when she wants it. I see a behavior pattern that I think something in her brain is turned off if I initiate and I don't know why. It seems like whenever I'm NOT interested then she tears off my clothes off. I honestly don't think its a romance problem. Our relationship seems great. Something else is going on here! Did I give up too much control or something and does she now see me as someone who she can push around?
Professor X Posted August 6, 2011 Posted August 6, 2011 Or maybe you lost your touch and you don't turn her on? Think about it, if you don't have sex when YOU want, that means YOU are not doing your job well; Means YOU don't turn her on. I think some work is indeed.
Author nice-easy-day Posted August 6, 2011 Author Posted August 6, 2011 Mechanically speaking, the touch hasn't been lost. A psychological touch has been lost.
LoveandSuch Posted August 7, 2011 Posted August 7, 2011 Mechanically speaking, the touch hasn't been lost. A psychological touch has been lost. She is using sex as a form of punishment, push and pull. Have you rejected her when she attempts sex with you? This may tell you where her mind is at.
Author nice-easy-day Posted August 7, 2011 Author Posted August 7, 2011 She is using sex as a form of punishment, push and pull. Have you rejected her when she attempts sex with you? This may tell you where her mind is at. Yes. I thought the exact same thing myself that it's the whole silly push and pull thing. The result was, after a short time of rejecting her; I got raped. And I speak literally on the word 'rape.' I understand that a woman wants what she can't have but I want our relationship to move past that. Maybe I need play the game forever to keep her interested. If that's true then I'm somewhat ok with that. I think it's superficial but if that's reality, then ok. Are couples really 'always' in the push and pull game?
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