pricecheck023 Posted August 6, 2011 Posted August 6, 2011 So I had met a girl months ago who looked absolutely stunning; probably one of the most naturally beautiful girls i've ever seen. She had a boyfriend at the time so I never completely got to meet her or know her. I've just come across her facebook recently and added her. She's single now! So I got to messaging her and she somewhat remembered me. Like I say we only briefly met, not even sure if we had gotten each others names the first time. Anyways, I randomly just saw her out the other night so I got to see her in person and talk for a bit. I messaged her later on that night and basically told her how gorgeous i thought she was and that I'd love to hang out sometime and gave her my number. She responded saying how she could totally see us getting along and was really glad to have met me for real...however, she wanted to let me know up front that she has just started seeing some guy. They aren't officially together, but she says she likes him... So I guess the question I have is what do I do now? I can't even explain the giddy excitement I've had over finally finding this girl after all these months and getting my hopes up for her. Now I feel pretty crushed..but should I? I mean is she technically still fair game? I've been single for almost 4 years now. Not because I can't get girls, just that getting through college life being single was just more stress-free. But now I'm really feeling the urge to have someone in my life. And this girl just feels really really right. I know there's plenty of fish in the sea blah blah blah but when you know someone is right you just know. I mean I like to think that I'm a pretty charming guy, and don't usually have trouble with girls liking me so I feel like if I could just get some time with her maybe something more could develop... Any suggestions??
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted August 6, 2011 Posted August 6, 2011 Wow this is a tough question! The only thing I can say is the most simple advice ever, be yourself!! I can you've heard that before but the worst thing is when you start seeing two guys and one tries to be the PERFECT guy he thinks you want. As long as you are yourself, which she seems to like;), then things will play out. Sorry if this isn't the most helpful piece of advice ever given
WhyWontYouBe Posted August 6, 2011 Posted August 6, 2011 So I had met a girl months ago who looked absolutely stunning; probably one of the most naturally beautiful girls i've ever seen. She had a boyfriend at the time so I never completely got to meet her or know her. I've just come across her facebook recently and added her. She's single now! So I got to messaging her and she somewhat remembered me. Like I say we only briefly met, not even sure if we had gotten each others names the first time. Anyways, I randomly just saw her out the other night so I got to see her in person and talk for a bit. I messaged her later on that night and basically told her how gorgeous i thought she was and that I'd love to hang out sometime and gave her my number. She responded saying how she could totally see us getting along and was really glad to have met me for real...however, she wanted to let me know up front that she has just started seeing some guy. They aren't officially together, but she says she likes him... So I guess the question I have is what do I do now? I can't even explain the giddy excitement I've had over finally finding this girl after all these months and getting my hopes up for her. Now I feel pretty crushed..but should I? I mean is she technically still fair game? I've been single for almost 4 years now. Not because I can't get girls, just that getting through college life being single was just more stress-free. But now I'm really feeling the urge to have someone in my life. And this girl just feels really really right. I know there's plenty of fish in the sea blah blah blah but when you know someone is right you just know. I mean I like to think that I'm a pretty charming guy, and don't usually have trouble with girls liking me so I feel like if I could just get some time with her maybe something more could develop... Any suggestions?? Just be you, don't over creep and don't over push.
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