rosie72 Posted August 6, 2011 Posted August 6, 2011 I just this minute wrote another post about telling our son about the breakup, but i want to ask this question separately. When my partner finally leaves, i want to do No Contact. (i bought the book how to get past your break up and and seems very sensible and the best way to go). However, we have an 11 year old boy (his stepson since he was 1). My partner will get a flat close by in town, me and my son will stay in the family home. So he wants to see him as 'often as possible and maintain the same relationship'. So.. how on earth can i do NC when he will be around here a few times a week to pick up/drop off our boy? It's going to be impossible to heal when i have to look at the man i still love every few days.. I've read a lot about NC but not much about if its possible to do it when there are kids involved?
Casablanca Posted August 6, 2011 Posted August 6, 2011 I don't think it is possible in this situation. The kid comes first, you'll have to put your son's feelings above yours,.
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