fauxleather Posted August 6, 2011 Posted August 6, 2011 It's like as cliched and corny as it sounds, a test of love. Once someone suggests a breakup, it's a sign of giving up. But should he/she still have feelings for you when both of you broke up, I believe over time and healing and some openness and initiative from both sides, both parties will still have the chance to reconnect and have another go at rekindling the whole relationship. But should he/she have no feelings for you whatsoever when both of you broke up and it stays that way, at least you know in the long-run, it was a good decision to end that otherwise doomed to fail relationship. And if both of you still loved each other but eventually still don't end up being with each other but ended up being happier with someone else respectively, I guess in a way, that's love in its most beautiful ironic ending. Am I being moody/thinking too much or did that make sense?
serviceduck Posted August 6, 2011 Posted August 6, 2011 It's like as cliched and corny as it sounds, a test of love. Once someone suggests a breakup, it's a sign of giving up. But should he/she still have feelings for you when both of you broke up, I believe over time and healing and some openness and initiative from both sides, both parties will still have the chance to reconnect and have another go at rekindling the whole relationship. But should he/she have no feelings for you whatsoever when both of you broke up and it stays that way, at least you know in the long-run, it was a good decision to end that otherwise doomed to fail relationship. And if both of you still loved each other but eventually still don't end up being with each other but ended up being happier with someone else respectively, I guess in a way, that's love in its most beautiful ironic ending. Am I being moody/thinking too much or did that make sense? I agree 100%! If it's meant to be, he/she will return. The most important relationships need a breather to remind each party what they have. That's what I believe.
SugarLily Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Me and my current 'boyfriend' have broken up about 728472 times, but we've also reconciled 728472 times. I can't let him go; I'm in love with him.
NursingGirl Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Me and my current 'boyfriend' have broken up about 728472 times, but we've also reconciled 728472 times. I can't let him go; I'm in love with him. lol! I totally understand but wow, it sounds like torture.
SugarLily Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 Hah, well we have a tonne of 'issues' that we need to overcome - but I know that i'd rather work through it than walk away. I'm not the kind of person to 'settle' for anything (including a guy). I'm just happier with him in my life. It would be easier to start afresh with someone else, but I would never have what we have again. Nobody said that love was easy. x
CaliBabe Posted August 10, 2011 Posted August 10, 2011 i agree with this. i also think a breakup helps us reconnect with ourselves and sometimes get ourselves back if we were lost in the relationship. good post.
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