bobbymcfan Posted August 6, 2011 Posted August 6, 2011 well you see, ive been dating this girl for a year or so and then well we were dating in the beginning and i was very much blinded by puppy love she cheated on me with another guy emotionaly, but i mean i was kind of a jerk in the begging anyway, so it could have been my fault, weve struggled since then and now a year or two later things have been great at times but different and she and I are different shes more materialistic me im more artsy and she likes sports. Im doubting ether i love her i mean i never got back that love we had in the begining i mean shes beautiful kind sweet everything nice but she can be so blunt at times, single minded, and very materialistic i dont know what to do but i never have anyone to talk to wich is why i came here can anyone help me with my thoughts? I dont know if i love her i just miss the kind of thing we had before. we do fight alot and when we talk on the internet becasue i dont have a car its jsut not the same with us. We recently almost ended it and im not sure if i should have, but im seeing her tommorow and when were physically together things are usually great. any thoughts?
Dorie Posted August 6, 2011 Posted August 6, 2011 If I understand correctly, your feelings changed after she cheated. Quite understandable. You miss what you "had before." Do you mean, before the cheating or during the early stages of falling in love? Most often, the latter doesn't come back but morphs into something more substantial. When that fails to happen, it often signals the need to move on. What is it you worry about? If you don't love her, you don't love her. Do you worry you won't attract someone else? That you're making a mistake?
WhyWontYouBe Posted August 6, 2011 Posted August 6, 2011 If you doubt it, it means you don't love her.
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