single_again Posted August 5, 2011 Posted August 5, 2011 (edited) I have been with my boyfriend off and on for 4yrs. We have two children together and I have two from a previous marriage. We have been through so much in the last 4 yrs that I am truly drained from the experience. First problem he is 25 and I am 31...so I don't have to explain the level of maturity..lol.. He is truly my first love.....I know, I know..LOL..I have been married b4 but that a total different post. Our main problem is he is a liar and will not acknowledge that he is...that is a HUGE issue for me becuz he can't even acknowledge it. My last effort was counseling and he was so into the idea but nothing really changed during counseling, so I was just done and disappointed. I thought the counseling would make him acknowledge his part in our relationship breakdown, but it did not. We were supposed to get married this month but of course with all the issues we had that would have been stupid. So I broke it off and told him I don't want to be in a relationship with him anylonger because I am unhappy. Mind you we have been through this many times b4, but I am officially tired and want to be in a more productive relationship. So we hadnt talked since sunday and he text me tuesday to say that he still loves me and want to work together for our daughters sake. So i was fine with that, but last night he stopped over to see them and pick up more "items" that he didnt take...It was hard because I still love him but I know we r not right for each other. So he ended up sleeping on my couch cuz his aparment is not ready until today...he slept on the couch, but b4 he went to bed he came to my room and kissed me so passionately....UGHHHHHHHHH!! Why? So I know that I am making the right decision but how do I keep the boundaries since we have kids and we still love each other? I feel like I want to move forward with my life becuz he is not the man for me, but I still love him to death. PLease help?!?! Edited August 5, 2011 by single_again
Author single_again Posted August 5, 2011 Author Posted August 5, 2011 Advice anyone?? I'm dying slowly here..lol
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