quietGuy13 Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 Hi guys So my therapist told me i need to really get out of my parents house and live on my own before anything can change. This is hard because my parents would get so angry and even possibly start a family feud I"m scared. they could even hurt eachother. what do you think? my disabiltiy is not visible, i look normal from the outside but it's there. But since i have one I am scared of how to live alone. Well i think i'm gonna get some help BUT the main thing is how to leave without a family feud Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 It is normal and healthy in most species of the animal kingdom, including the human species, to leave "the nest" once you reach a certain level of maturity and development. Then you can build your own life and, if you desire, build your own nest for your own family. If your parents have a problem with their grown son moving out and living his own life, that's their problem. Loving, healthy-minded parents want their children to mature and thrive as healthy adults. Your therapist will help you handle the mental and emotional challenges of this transition. Link to post Share on other sites
Dust Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 If your family starts a war with you then you have to beat them at their own game. Move out and have the fricken time of your life and feel sorry for your family if that’s the way they want it. Seriously if my family had given me trouble moving out as a grown up I would have taken my belt off and spanked them with it. Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted August 5, 2011 Share Posted August 5, 2011 Are there group homes or halfway house for people with the same problem? Link to post Share on other sites
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