miamiamia Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 Hellow everyone, my boyfreind for 2 years now just gave me the news a WEEK ago that he is leaving to usa to play basketball for a year. I wonder how we'll survive that, since we are both really, extremely jelous. I feel incredibly sad and have no appetite. I think i'm loosing it. Anyy advice?
LickABattery Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 Well i dont think you losing it, i just think it hurts you because you wont be togather for the year that his gone, So dont think ur going losing it or anything. Its normal to feel how you are feeling, the best i can suggest is to make sure you both communicate while his gone, Keeping in contact will ease you on how your feeling. Jealousy is normal its a human thing, some people just tend to show it more then others. I am in situation where my gf has gone to USA for a month with her family and theres no way we can keep in contact as her family are strict, so to get rid of the annoying feelings like Feeling like his probably cheating on you while his there etc then just try and trust him and make yourself snap out of it (while my gf has been gone i have thought like this and remembering things we have talked about always snapped me out of it). Best i can sugges tho is keep communication, keep yourself busy and try not to let the Worrying Feelings take over as it will just make you stress more. I wish you best and like i said just discuss with him ways you two can keep in touch while his gone for the year.
Author miamiamia Posted August 5, 2011 Author Posted August 5, 2011 thankyou so much for sharing your experience with me. He left today and we agreed to talk via BBM on a daily basis and he will also call me very often. I still havent eaten anything.. i wonder why. Maybe i just feel like i should look better than all the girls he's gooing to be hanging around with so that he doesn't cheat on me.. but i don't know. i hope times pases by quickly... one year seamslike so long... but i know our love is stronger than that.
LickABattery Posted August 7, 2011 Posted August 7, 2011 Good i am glad you both discussed it and you should really eat something proper!!! If your love is strong as you say it is then he wont compare you to the other girl he will love you, for you :3
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