YoungSuccesful Posted April 28, 2004 Posted April 28, 2004 Ok... We have reached that point where it almost feels wrong not to say "I love you"...I'm falling in love and I'm close to saying I love you but I dont want to scare her We have both agreed that it feels like we have been dating for months and months when it has only been 4 weeks (comfort zone) We spend a couple nights of the weekday in the same bed and weekends in the same bed... I feel I have complimented her so much and expressed my feelings that the only other compliment that does her ANY justice is "I love you"
bluechocolate Posted April 28, 2004 Posted April 28, 2004 If you really feel that you love her then tell her. However, 4 weeks is too soon in my book - I'm not convinced that someone can be sure that they really love someone in just 4 weeks. There must be stacks of stuff you still have to learn about each other. Don't confuse the heady infatuation at the beginning of dating for true love. For some people those are three very strong little words and some people chuck them around easily and leave behind them a tide of hurt souls. Take it easy, keep complimenting her, enjoy this time for what it is and wait and see how your feelings for each other develop.
Debster Posted April 28, 2004 Posted April 28, 2004 You just ended a relationship with your fiance (or at least I hope you did). How can you so quickly go from loving one to loving another? If I find it highly unbelievable - don't you think she might too.
BlueHeavens Posted April 30, 2004 Posted April 30, 2004 I have. It was the kiss of death. After a longer relationship than that. Regardless of how your sentiments are received, though, I think my important lesson from that experience was learning that my love is a worthy gift; if somone chooses not to accept it, I should not be down on myself because of it.
NatoPMT Posted April 30, 2004 Posted April 30, 2004 I dont know the history here, but it sounds like theres a very recent ex-fiance maybe you are so compelled to do the I Love You thing because thats what you are used to. without a break between relationships, its difficult to start at the beginning and take this relationship as a brand new beginning, you hit the ground running and thats too fast. i love a bit of impulsiveness myself, but make sure its real 1st BB
NatoPMT Posted April 30, 2004 Posted April 30, 2004 oh and ps, no i havent turned anyone down after them saying that - not since i was 15 anyway. my last boyfriend said it on the first date. now THATS too fast, didnt turn him down though, but he turned out to be unstable emotionally.
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