Jaypee Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 Hi guys. I'm new here. Names JP. I just want to share something that's been bugging me for the past 11 months....My girlfriend is a really good person, but recently I just found out that She keeps on logging in to my facebook account without my permission. Then she would text me who this person I was chatting with was etc. I told her about it and everything went back to normal....or so I thought. I told her that I would change my password because I felt that my personal space was violated. I mean its ok for her to check my account, but I want to be there when she does it. I don't want her to go behind my back because that shows that in a way, she doesn't trust me at all. So I told her all those things after that incident. But then it happened again. And again without my knowledge. This time I was really pissed. I've explained to her that I didn't like her doing that but she still did it....again! That was the last straw....I just broke up with her a while ago....I didn't want it to end this way, but I felt that our relationship won't work out if one of us has trust issues.... What do you guys think? Did I do the right thing?
creighton0123 Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 Yup. Rather than her taking the initiative to talk things through with you and to settle on something (regardless of how small) that was important to you, she continued her invasive behavior. Whether or not it was trust issues or her inability to turn a single lightbulb off, she failed to communicate with you on something that was important to you. You did nothing wrong.
Author Jaypee Posted August 5, 2011 Author Posted August 5, 2011 I know I'm going to end up being the "bad guy" when she talk with our friends. She'll probably say something like "It was such a small thing" or "He over reacted". I don't care. I've been open with her. I've told her things that nobody else knows about. All I was asking for was this one simple request...and she didn't deliver.
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