exotic_angel Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 a couple months ago i met my cousin and her new bo at a family event. In that first moment when i saw him, i swear my heart stopped. i didnt understand the disoriented, unfamiliar feeling and i didnt tink too much of it at the time. during their two months of dating, we all met up and hung out a couple of times, with other friends. they fought often and it was clear to them both and everyone around that they weren't very compatible. him and i spoke a couple of times on bbm, but it was always casual. it has been three months since the both of them have been broken up. A few days ago on bbm we got into a 5 hour long convo.. we both got lost in words about everything. .. he told me about his admiration for me and i told him (mistakeably.. possibly) how i felt the first time i saw him. it's crazy to tink that fate.. true love.. magic still exist in this world full of logic. for two busy, colorful, crazy souls to feel so much, so fast. my heart feels so full whenever he's around.. we never run out of tings to talk about and he's wiling to do anything for me.. it's all sounds pretty whimsical huh??? .. i dont know what to believe now? should i take this risk... ???
Author exotic_angel Posted August 4, 2011 Author Posted August 4, 2011 we are not very close.. but we would have to see each other at family events. he has already told all his friends about me.. he said he knows that i'm the woman he wants to be with forever. he's kind, respectful and considerate.
tigressA Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 It's been three months since they split. They were together for only two months and their relationship wasn't great. I say go for it. I doubt your cousin will be upset, but if she is, she'll get over it.
Author exotic_angel Posted August 4, 2011 Author Posted August 4, 2011 thank you... i'm so ready for this adventure.
sm1tten Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 I actually think your cousin will be mad, but only you can determine how mad she would be. Even though they didn't date very long and it wasn't a very satisfactory relationship, she may feel jealous, or she may feel like you shouldn't date a guy she's already dated. Since you aren't close, I wouldn't say that you necessarily need to talk to her first or "get her permission" but I'd give her a heads-up before the next family get together. if anything, I'd be more worried about the "forever" talk this early in the relationship, but maybe that's just me.
Author exotic_angel Posted August 4, 2011 Author Posted August 4, 2011 usually the forever talk would bother me also, considering that i'm 25 and he's 31, we are a little old for being whimsical. at this age logic is suppose to weight heavier than feelings. But it just feels so right, so natural. and my cousins would be very upset, it would bring up all sorts of drama not just between us but in the family. i wonder if it's worth the risk.
Author exotic_angel Posted August 4, 2011 Author Posted August 4, 2011 Is it worth is exactly what I'm tryna determine. He is so sure of this. I guess only time wud tell. I told him I need to keep dis on the dl on my end and he is fine wit watever I want to do. He said we will hang out on his side wit his friends for the time being.
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