cracker2011 Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 just had 5 full days with my SO..had a wonderful time and he treated me like a princess.is it normal to feel a little insecure now that he is gone again?? those feelings like..will he cheat on me...etc etc.. i know he is crazy about me and he has never given me any reason to doubt him at all..
creighton0123 Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 just had 5 full days with my SO..had a wonderful time and he treated me like a princess.is it normal to feel a little insecure now that he is gone again?? those feelings like..will he cheat on me...etc etc.. i know he is crazy about me and he has never given me any reason to doubt him at all.. All of these feelings: abandonment, doubt, anger, mistrust, insecurity, loneliness, heartache, despair, etc. etc. are all normal after every distance separation, especially for the individual being "left behind". The key is to inform your partner of your emotions in a mature and honest way, letting him or her know that it is not a reflection on how you feel about him or her, but simply airing what emotions you are experiencing and why it is important to keep communication open until you are reunited.
LickABattery Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 Yup all these feelings are totally normal, if you didn't feel the sadness and heartbroken then you wouldn't be normal XD. i wouldn't worry about it its completely normal.
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