GreenTurtle Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 Although we arnt technically in a relationship, but we both agree that one day maybe we would, and the hope of some day being together when she returns, is a good reason to wake up in the morning. We have known eachother almost 5 months, about 3 of the months we spent together and i really enjoyed it. i really became attached and developed a strong passion of love for her. very quickly got along, simalar silly personality, so many inside jokes as if we knew eachother for years. i miss her dearly every day. i love waking up to a fresh new text from her, i love txting her throughout the day and coming home after work to chat with her online and skype once in a while. counting down the days, time is def going by fast. 2 more months to feel the warmth of my heart again. I do hate the fact we are apart for so long, but the wait for her return feels like a child waiting for christmas day.
LickABattery Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 Yes i totally understand how you feel! I'm like this with my gf, it feels nice too xD. I get the child waiting for Christmas, my gf has gone to USA for the month and i totally get what you mean, You just want the weeks to fly by XD. Long Distance Realationships can be really nice if its stable, because when you finally get togather with your SO the love in my own opinion always feels alot stronger.
miamiamia Posted August 5, 2011 Posted August 5, 2011 what you wrote sound sooo nicee! but i have to wait for 10 months...do you guys think i'll make it? i feel like a part of me has been taken away.
LickABattery Posted August 6, 2011 Posted August 6, 2011 be more positive Green Yeah i think you will make it, The only advice i can give for 10 months is not to count how long you have left, and you will soon notice it flys by ^^
LoveMad Posted August 7, 2011 Posted August 7, 2011 Yay 2 more months for me aswell im counting days and minutes everyday. Missing my love so bad more and more each day. Goodluck for everyone.
lucacoleman Posted August 8, 2011 Posted August 8, 2011 Most of the times the distances gives your relationship a bit of a mystery and spice. You will most likely look forward to the times you will meet again.
Els Posted August 8, 2011 Posted August 8, 2011 Oh, yeah. I was in a LDR for 2 years (together IRL for the past year or so now), and although I can very confidently say I do NOT miss the LDR part of our R, there is just something magical about a visit after a long period of separation. It's the kind of high that you don't usually get from a IRL LTR where you're both seeing each other everyday.
cerridwen Posted August 8, 2011 Posted August 8, 2011 (edited) I don't mind a LDR at all. I have an unconventional career that demands a lot creatively. This means getting up in the middle of the night sometimes to storyboard when the spirit moves me. It means having my creative team come over for impromptu BBQs or piling them into a car for blue sky meetings at the pub. My social life is crazy. I travel often. I compete athletically. I'm not sure a relationship would survive on the little energy I have left over. I'm not sure he'd understand the demands on me, or the way I operate. Hence, a LDR 'tis perfect right now. @miamiamia--you'll do just fine. Hang in there. You too, Greenturtle. Great things are worth waiting for. Edited August 8, 2011 by cerridwen
torn_curtain Posted August 13, 2011 Posted August 13, 2011 I don't really mind it. I think sometimes that distance buffer keeps you saner, especially if you're both busy. Of course I'd prefer a non LDR, but I think both have their advantages and disadvantages.
Erwin2475 Posted August 16, 2011 Posted August 16, 2011 At some point the distance has to disappear though. And this often involves difficult decision-making on at least one of the parties - a decision that he or she may not even know the full weight of until it comes. I had a wonderful LDR with my ex for over a year. In the end, even though she decided she'd move to where I am, she changed her mind at the last moment. She didn't anticipate it'd be so hard. It's different for everyone, but it's still almost always a really huge leap to make. So just remember to keep this in mind and make sure both are well prepared for it (the decision on how the distance will cease). LDR can't go on forever obviously.
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