Bubby Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 My husband came home a few weeks ago and told me that our marriage was over. He tole me that he did not love me anymore. Here I am broken hearted and very very confused. I did not see this happening in our marriage as we have always been so close. I can't stop crying and I just want him to cuddle me and tell me that the nightmare is over. That he did not mean it. People have said that I have to move on. But I'm not only losing my husband, my lover but also my bestfriend. We used to do so much together and now its all gone. Any ideas on how I cope with this ?
YuGr. Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 I'm so sorry to hear 'Bubby'. From the little I know from this forum, you're definitely at the right place! I can't tell you how it feels to lose a husband, but I definitely know how it feels to be heartbroken, I myself just got dumped for another guy 1 month ago. My advice? Let yourself be sad about it, realize that it's over and MAKE yourself cry for a few days, a week, however long it takes.. After a while of crying about it, you're gonna get fed up of making yourself feel this way and it'll be easier to move on. I honestly think and know (for myself at least) that trying to ignore it and trying to move on before actually letting it all out first, only makes it take longer. Keep us updated! -Mike
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