LoveandSuch Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 Guy at work, good looking, women would definitely want to date this man, looks at me in obvious ways, at times up to 30++++ times. Should I be flattered or scared? Usually men are not so obvious, a few times, but so many.
Cracker Jack Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 (edited) Flattered. He's probably too nervous to approach you...or might be in the process of putting together a plan to make an approach. I think he wants you to at least know he's really attracted to you, anyway. I know if I look at a woman that many times (I try not to) it's because I'm really attracted to her, but afraid to approach. I'd probably look at a beautiful woman 2-3 times before I stop, since I wouldn't want her to catch me and end up getting weirded out or something. Edited August 4, 2011 by Cracker Jack
bama_bbq Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 The question is do *you* want to date this man. If so, be flattered. Otherwise, ...
Author LoveandSuch Posted August 4, 2011 Author Posted August 4, 2011 Flattered. He's probably too nervous to approach you...or might be in the process of putting together a plan to make an approach. I think he wants you to at least know he's really attracted to you, anyway. I know if I look at a woman that many times (I try not to) it's because I'm really attracted to her, but afraid to approach. I'd probably look at a beautiful woman 2-3 times before I stop, since I wouldn't want her to catch me and end up getting weirded out or something. Exactly, 2-3 x seems to be on mark. I am a mixture of outgoing and shy, so it takes me awhile, sometimes too late to figure things out in my head. The amount of looks took me a little by surprise and it is not the first time. He is cute. So, you are guessing not a red flag.
patagonia Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 Guy at work, good looking, women would definitely want to date this man, looks at me in obvious ways, at times up to 30++++ times. Should I be flattered or scared? Usually men are not so obvious, a few times, but so many. if he isn't married or if he doesn't have a gf, talk to him. Get going!
Cracker Jack Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 Exactly, 2-3 x seems to be on mark. I am a mixture of outgoing and shy, so it takes me awhile, sometimes too late to figure things out in my head. The amount of looks took me a little by surprise and it is not the first time. He is cute. So, you are guessing not a red flag. Yeah, I seriously doubt it's a red flag. Wave to him.
Author LoveandSuch Posted August 4, 2011 Author Posted August 4, 2011 Will see:o Hopefully my shy side will not send the do not enter vibes.
bama_bbq Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 If this is the only thing "weird" about him, I wouldn't worry about it; go for it! He probably realizes he's a ladies man and thinks he can get away with looking at you a lot. Apparently he can. ;-)
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